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[memeodrama]

[lady-of-fangs-lyrlia]

Help, a butch tgirl had me over last weekend and she absolutely destroyed me. Ive never had sex that good before in my entire life. And like I cant stop thinking about her fingers inside of me omggggggg even jerking off doesn't help

I wanna ask her to hang out again but like I dont wanna bug her but also I NEEED IT

Anon that sounds amazing! I'm so thrilled for you! I would, and I'm sure my followers would love to hear all the details if you'd like to share them more in depth.

But to answer your question, I'm going to drop the persona I've built on this blog and try to answer you as carefully as I can. This is just some general advice from a woman nearing 40. Also, please understand, I don't know either of you beyond that paragraph you've sent me. Some things may not be applicable, or work in your situation.

From the sounds of it, this is something more casual. It also sounds like she's had the time with partners to practice the skills applied to wrap you around her finger so deftly.

Someone like that typically ends up taking the initiative rather often. And while that may be what she likes in the bedroom (Stone tops for example), I've found that novel experiences work wonders in making you stand out. Maybe something as simple as buying her flowers, or having the date/hangout location already picked out and planned. Offer to make/bring dinner. Or if that's a touch too much, simple baked sweets go a long way (Make sure to avoid common allergens like peanuts) In the bedroom, find out something she's been wanting to try and then do it. Don't sit and wait for her to try something she's been curious about when you can offer that to her.

Does she work an active job? Read on how to give foot/hand massages and watch her melt. Help her pick up after you play and wallow for hours. Talk. Be earnest and vocal about how things feel, how she makes you feel, how positive those feelings are. Learn to dirty talk so she can't get the purr of your voice out of her head.

Look at what you bring to the table. Objectively you need to consider what your strengths are in a relationship and how you can refine those. This may take some time, and some self reflection, but if your goal is "I want to be a quality bottom for this woman" then it's important to know what qualities those are. For example does she like to fold you in half? Take a half hour a day to do yoga and start showing off how flexible you are. Does she like to have eyecandy? Find out what looks best on you and hone it. Climb on top of a pillow and practice ridding. Find a mirror so you can find the right way to roll your hips. Be responsive with your own touches back.

So in short, she's a person with needs. If you can find out what those needs are, and be the one to fulfill them, you have a much higher chance of building a long term relationship.

[kitconnor]

who's gon' love me like this?

MAN OF THE YEAR Lorde (2025)

[weirdgirlvampire]

Chills the entire album. She took a scalpel and cut into the music and I felt like I was inside her bedroom with unwashed sheets. A best friend telling me secrets late at night. Anger and sweat and the love of imperfection. I’m so happy for you Ella and Thank You Lorde

[sersh]

LORDE Photographed by Martine Syms for Document Journal's Spring/Summer 2025 issue

[liabilityqorianka]

current mood listening to virgin by lorde

[bellefairchildblog]

[touhou-memories]

Shoot the Bullet - Level 4, Scene 4.