#lamarbrad

[bonneibennett]

lamarbrad replied to your post “Was that BTS video with Kat and Ian from them shooting today? Or was it just posted today?”

it was tonight and its ep 9

ah, thank you!!

you don't happen to have any assurances that they aren't snuggling because it's Kat's last night on set, do you?

[leatifcnty]

lamarbrad replied to your post:I just thought because of the old 90's looking car he posted and the fact that he does work on TVD this season...but idk. Imma just pretend it's about Bamon anyway lol

Could be either. She’s doin a project w/ him in LA. Check her latest IG post.

I just checked again and yeaa I think its an outside project.

[bonneibennett]

lapisisdrunkinbamon replied to your post “what the hell is going on in this fandom”

My question is...what are they trying to do to their ship's leg? Now things are getting out of line and people are being real disrespectful and Kat shouldn't have to see that or put up with it.

That just seems so much more hurtful to me. Like it's horrible to say, but I imagine she's more or less used to the everyday hate that Bonnie gets from the fandom at large. But we Bonnie fans are supposed to be her advocates. The fact that people who have claimed to be on her side would turn on her at the first sign that she might not hold all the same opinions as them just seems like it would hurt that much more. She's a grown woman and certainly capable of dealing with it, but it sucks all the same.

roplusglam replied to your post “what the hell is going on in this fandom”

Nisha I am so angry rn. Those posts are so rude and disrespectful ughh

I can't even deal with it. My policy lately has been to steer clear of the drama and just continue living in my own little worlds, but honestly there is a limit. It's one thing to criticize Bamon as a ship, it's another thing to come after Bamon shippers themselves, but turning on Kat is a whole other ballgame. Can you imagine if some TVD random fan had come up in the BB tag a week ago and compared Kat to an animal in heat? Can you imagine the (rightful) outrage that would have flooded the tags? It's childish, it's hypocritical, it's vile.

lamarbrad replied to your post “what the hell is going on in this fandom”

I swear we watched a different video than them. So confused rn.

Right?? Tho honestly, even if Kat had literally stood on that chair and shouted "Bamon is the tits, all other pairings are trash, and btw I am on the writing staff now!" it doesn't merit this kind of reaction. I mean look, if the possibility of one of the actors in a person's ship maybe at some point entertaining the idea of her character being in a pairing other than that person's otp is enough to turn them off to them as an actress entirely... I think that's dumb, but it's a valid response. A person can untrack their tags, change their blog info, find some new hobbies. Whatever, have at it.

But what's not okay is attacking said actress, or harassing them for not representing whatever particular vision of the show they wanted. What's not okay is pressuring her to change her completely harmless opinion, just because it doesn't match theirs. What's not okay is making posts in the tag that they know she's watching, passive aggressively talking vile shit about her as if she's supposed to see it, be hurt, and then regret everything. As if that'll teach her, and surely now she's sorry for losing their flimsy-ass support.

[leatifcnty]

lamarbrad lol you don't like weskin?

[austnbutlr]

lamarbrad replied to your post:that god damn oscar selfie has clogged up the...

go under search instead of tagged

i did that and it's still all pics of the selfie.

[austnbutlr]

lamarbrad replied to your post:styleest-eternel replied to your post “#cottrell...

I’ll be so pissed if he comes out after she has his babies.

it's not like anyone would/notice care if he did....

but i mean kat does surround herself around a lot of people in the gay community so y'know it wouldn't be the most shocking thing in the world if he actually was gay.....

i need to stop being messy.

let me stop.

[austnbutlr]

lamarbrad replied to your post: Would now be a bad time to say that I was there for that Tyler Posey photo shoot?

Amazing! You’re a stylist?

No, I'm not a stylist. I have an internship with the magazine he shot for, so I was around for the shoot to help out and whatnot. 

[bamonpocalypsenow]

@lamarbrad yes! Me too. The only thing it does is get people worked up and angry over something that isnt even important and it ruins the fangirl excitement sometimes. I kno we're all guilty of ranting but i try to keep mine out of the tag because it just brings the mood of the tag down and people down. Lik if there were no rants about dresses and web clips i think the whole tag would be much more upbeat idk