#lightwoodsibs5ever

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Jace

do I like them: is that even a question? yesyesYES :)

5 good qualities: loyal, brave, sacrificing, loving, strong

3 bad qualities:  impulsive, hides his vulnerability behind a cocky mask, has problems putting himself in other people’s place (thank you, valentine)

favourite episode/etc: parabatai lost - he just broke my heart

otp: jalec

brotp: jace & izzy

ot3: platonic - lightwood trio / romantic - used to be malace, but not really anymore

notp: pretty much anyone but alec these days, but especially simon

best quote: “you can kill me, just let me get to him first.”

head canon: valentine instilled him with a deep-seated feeling that he’s not worthy, not of love or acceptance. meeting alec (and izzy) showed him what being loved and accepted felt like. becoming parabatai with alec was his way of being *certain* that he would never have to be alone again.

[legionofcrows]

lightwoodsibs5ever replied to your post “I hate when people reduce Jace to a dudebro or fuckboy or whatever...”

I saw that "tag yourself" too and it was harsh on everyone but worst to poor Jace. I hate people who say he's nothing but a dudebro or fuckboi.

I only read the Jace one because 99% of the time that’s who I get with the personality things and I was just so annoyed I kept scrolling. Can we please stop reducing an abuse survivor’s issues with intimacy, trust, and abandonment to being a “fuck boy”

[prettydjarinsoloinspires]

Hi can you give me some sh blogs to follow that don't have a lot of negativity please, this drama is giving me a headache

Hi! I may not be the best person to ask this of, but I will do my best. 

Tbh, I’m glad you are still following me after all of the drama I’ve been posting about. I advertise as “negativity free” with the intention being that I would only post positivity and nice things and stay away from the drama. Lol. I don’t think I’m doing too great at that. 

However, I have tried to remain level-headed and fair in regards to all the critical discussions happening in the fandom rn, when I do engage in it. I’ve lost several followers, but also gained some. So I must be doing something right XP. Thank all of you for sticking with me btw!!! You’re all amazing. 

Anywho….

I follow a lot of great people, but with the whirlwind of posts and opinions flying around I have not really kept track on all of my faves opinions on everything. I know they are all varying so you should totally check out the people I reblog frequently because even though they may have different opinions on what qualifies as negativity, they are all super nice, wonderful angels.

You can start with these people right here:

@malecisright @leetje @ladymatt @blj2007 @mypatronusismalec @boyfriendsmalec @peachyjellybean @bonus-point @only-1-a @daddarios @gleeksfreaksandwannabes @darquebane @magicandarchery @sfjessii @sharona1x2 @alyxhavok @write-yourself @courageincombat @alec-s-arrows @lightwoodsibs5ever @soulisthirsty @highwarlok @summerseasbooks @magnusandalec @ninsuninja @x5vale

[tmi-tv-show-news]

lightwoodsibs5ever replied to your post “The Shadowhunters TV Website Content Has Been Moved”

Any ideas why the change was made and if this is a good thing?

Freeform probably made this change as a way to get more traffic onto their own site. No to mention, it centralizes everything for them, making it more convenient for both Freeform and for the viewers.

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Alec

do I like them: he will forever be my favourite <3

5 good qualities: loyal, steadfast, selfless, smart, loves few but hard 

3 bad qualities: closed off, desperate to meet other people’s expectations (”heavy is the head...”), dismissive of things and people he deems unimportant

favourite episode/etc: 1x05 - you can literally see his heart breaking when Jace calls him ‘brother’. 

otp: jalec

brotp: alec & izzy, also alec & lydia

ot3: platonic - lightwood trio / romantic - used to be malace, but not anymore, really

notp: can’t see him with anyone but jace these days, but especially clary (or any girl)

best quote: “I trust you, parabatai. Don’t ever doubt me, no matter what I said.”

head canon: Alec is demisexual and never wanted to have sex with anyone but Jace. For a long time he wished desperately to be “normal”, to like girls and be content with being Jace’s parabatai (which is why he made up Jessica Hawkblue), but in the end he can barely remember a time when he wasn’t in love with Jace.