Are/were you insecure about anything of yourself, physical appearance wise?( I experience it and will go under a nose job to feel better)
In the past people would tryto bully me about being thin or for having strong features (heck some selfhating people still do sit on their butt all day and try to pick me apartonline), but I had learned to love myself and all that I am. I refuse to letsomeone make me feel as if I need to change myself because of their ownjealousy issues or their ideal beauty standards are.
LOVE YOUR NOSE!!!! Pleaselearn how to love your nose and your features. Having your nose done will notcure the root problem of having low self confidence or being insecure aboutexternal appearances. What if the doctor botches your nose? What if the doctorhurts your nose in a way that leaves you in physical pain for the rest of yourlife that will add to the mental pain you already have existing? And if you get the type of nose look you want, what if someone attacks something else about your body? Will you have the aching need to have surgery to change that part of your body? What if someone attacks your new nose and says “Oh it looked much better before” (trust me negative people will try to make you change and then say you looked better before - they love hurting people and then ripping them down even more when they know they have control over you).
I have knownpeople who have gone under the knife in hopes to feel better about themselvesand they were left feeling worse than they did before going under. You cannotundo surgery, you cannot undo the cartilage taken out of your nose. You CANundo insecurity issues and you CAN undo low self confidence and you CAN undothe pain other people have cause you by trying to make you feel bad about theway you look. Embrace your nose, embrace your body. Hey, if you ever feelbad about your nose look at Cleopatra. She has a very strong nose and wasconsidered one of the most beautiful, educated and strong women that oncelived. Back in the day women could not be in power positions if they did not have strong features because no man would take her seriously. EMBRACE YOURPOWER! You are so special and unique! Don’t go into the cookie cutter linebecause of how the “beauty standards” are set up today to make money forcompanies. You are so much more than that doll! You are not a beauty standard, YOU ARE THE EMBODIMENT OF BEAUTY.
Jealous self hating peopleused to harass me all the time about my nose online. They still do today send menasty anonymous asks trying to make me feel bad about my features or my thinbody. And you know what? None of it effects me. Their own self hatred forthemselves could never make me hate myself ever again. I was there once when Iwas younger, but I was able to UNDO the pain I had for myself without doingsomething I can’t undo - like surgery. You can develop this unbreakablestrength and self love for yourself. You really can!!! (Use uplifting mantras for self love and acceptance everyday, it really works, just do it consistently even if you think its dumb at first. It’s reprogramming your thoughts and mind. Your mind is a tool and mantras will reprogram it into a positive state rather than a negative one.)
If you let people makeyou feel bad about your features/external appearance then everyone will have asay on what you should or shouldn’t look like and if you allow that, yougive your power away to these people who have no business telling others howthey should look or feel about themselves. If you are being harassed onlineabout your features, just know that it’s based off of jealousy and these peopleabsolutely hate themselves. They will try to find anything they think you’reinsecure about and magnify it and try to destroy you. I love the way my noselooks, but there are self hating sad people online that think it’s a weak orsensitive subject for me and use to try and hurt me. They will use anythingthey think you’re sensitive about and use it to hurt you (but the reality isthey are actually very insecure about their own features, so when they attackyou about yours, they’re actually just reflecting what they truly think aboutthemselves- they hate their own features, they hate their own nose so they willattack others to try and make them feel better about themselves- which btwNEVER works for them, they’ve got it backwards and too caught up in their ownself hatred to even realize they are spinning in circles and digging their own graves of misery. It’s really sad. Don’t take on their own thoughts of feelings about themselves. It’s not yours to process or bare. Forgive them, shake it off, send back their own negativity to them (the source) and free yourself of the negative chatter. You are free, you are magnificent, you are one of a kind. It’s truly amazing to be you. Embrace it, know it, feel it and accept it doll!
There are extremelybeautiful women with strong features are prominent noses. Look at Indian women,Native American women, Egyptian women, Polish women, Iranian women - GORGEOUS!And they have high bridges and beautiful curves in their noses and asymmetricalnoses that cannot be duplicated that are BEAUTIFUL that no one else can haveeven if they go to a surgeon. They don’t have cookie cutter nosesstraight from the surgeon’s portfolio. Every feature is truly beautifulbecause of how a person holds him or herself with it.
Beauty really comes down to the energy you have and emit. Ifyou have self love and love for others you will magnify this beautiful energyaround you and others will notice. Think about this, have you ever seen someonewho you thought that fit the beauty standards you look up to, yet there is somethingabout them that their energy repels you or is missing that “spark”? Have you ever seen someone who does notfit what you look up to, but their energy is amazing and you find that personjust absolutely gorgeous? BEAUTY IS THE POSITIVE ENERGY YOU EMIT. You can havebeauty and have others notice it NO MATTER WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE. Take theexternal appearance out of the equation; it’s just a distraction to youobtaining true beauty and magnificence which is an energy of self love and acceptance.Other people feel that energy around you and want to be around you and want totalk to you and be with you. It’s all a type of energy. Embody the energy of beauty. You already are beautiful, you just need to realize it and accept it. Surrender to the energy of beauty that resides within you and let it grow more everyday with the positive you feed and nurture it with.