My kiddo is in the hospital dealing with complications that we don’t fully understand yet. He was born with a heart condition that has already required multiple surgeries and he was scheduled for another tomorrow but this is throwing off the whole schedule.
Anyways uhm i guess this is my way of being vulnerable and sharing that im fucking scared and sad and really would swap places with him in a split fucking second, but in the mean time I have his twin sister and their baby brother to take care of back home.
If you have someone going through really tough shit in your life, I recommend just helping. I mean, use discretion and your own best judgement, but my sister watched the kids for a bit today and just…cleaned up some of the most obvious messes in the house without asking or being told what to do and that was amazing.
So yeah if you know someone going through shit, just make them a lasagna or send a door dash gift card or put together a care basket or literally show up and start helping.
That is all.
