Ok sad potential topic (content warning sexual assault)
Hank didn’t seem like he had sex with Sirena, idk if it’s because of what happened to him before but idk if that scene was supposed to be a joke or indication of Hank having trauma/aversion to sex.
A constant I see is active/passive pursuit of sex in venture bros especially around sex. Now bear with me because I’m gonna word this weird but Hank is a lot like Rusty as in he isn’t an ACTIVE person when it comes to sex. While Dean and Brock match in the sense (Dean is….Dean but you get me) of actively pursue someone with sex as intention or interested.
Hank isn’t some guy who’s too innocent or whatever, that’s simply not true he had an interest of sex, of relationships before Dean. I think he still does. my point of contemplation is when Hank is put into a box he has the lowkey panic or tries to side step it. From gender, to his personality, to his perceived role in his family Hank likes to commit to the bit but not embody the idea. His self discovery journey is also proof of that, the attempt to fit into one hank going wrong.
Do I think Sirena hooked up with Dean because he was more sure of himself even in his self destruction?sorta. But I don’t blame her like I DO (bc wtf) but in your 20s you’re gonna make some weird decisions off the basis of not communicating, or not being able to communicate what you want from someone because YOU don’t even know what you want from someone.
It’s the shitty af thing to do to someone we never got an explanation for, and while Hank doesn’t owe anyone sex bc he doesn’t this is like the only way I could POSSIBLY fathom the sex that Dean and Sirena decided to mutually agree to do. Again Dean and Sirena agreed on this, Dean to reinforce his idea of himself, Sirena to fulfil a missing frustration that blew up on Hank the person who is related to both their mindset but not the direct reason.
I hold the firm belief that Hank isn’t the reason why this happened, Hank was definitely a thought in the line of thought domino but not the reason. In the end, vbros has a lot of insecurity at its core and the act of sex amplifies the insecurity.
Hank I think, would have trouble here on out. He will repeat this again, he will fall back into the sweet boyfriend trope but paranoid about what wasn’t enough (re Sirena) not realizing it’s good and well that you want to be a sweet guy. But people want to know that you WANT them, that you desire them, that you want to fuck them. I think Hank would meet someone who gets that and takes it slow, instead of Hank calling the shots it’s this other person, allowing Hank NOT to think about it and doing what Hank likes best: the chase. Only this time he gets caught, because he does like getting “caught”, his partner would be patient with him to open up the other side sex. But I think in a relationship that’s compatible it wouldn’t be a waiting game, it would just be Hank allowing himself to express sexual interest or yk both.
Basically can’t believe they punished Hank Venture for believing in love and not being freaky immediately, like wow give him a MINUTE?