(1) wassup SO this will be in two parts but I have a question for ya: what do you think about people in your life "ruining" things for you? for example, a former friend of mine refused to listen to the Moulin Rouge soundtrack (and some other music) bc it reminded him of an ex. and I'm like? ?? why let someone have that kind of power over you? ?? that same friend (coincidentally) recently fucked me over, and even though we shared a lot of favorite bands/songs/shows...
I refuse to let the way I feel about him change how I live my life, ya know?
yea idk i think it depends on the persons personality. and if they got you into the thing, or if you can’t experience the thing without thinking of that person and like how bad that person was for you.
cause like my ex best friend and i would go to shows together all the time and we liked a lot of the same bands and like music was wha we bonded over and now we’re not friends anymore but i still go to shows and listen to the same bands.
but like if it’s an ex and they cheated on you/emotionally manipulatd you/it was their favorite band that they got you into, it mgiht be different. it depends on the person but i think that you should try not to let someone else ruin something that you enjoy.
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