pronouns don't equal gender in the way everyone's exact relation to gender is different so you can have a cis guy using the same pronouns as an m spec afab nb person but that doesn't take pronouns' meaning away so if i see another cis lesbian try to use he/him pronouns in a vain attempt to live trans men's struggles like it's a cool or trendy thing while invalidating trans men's fight i might as well fucking implode
if you're comfier using he/him pronouns then maybe consider you're m spec. and if not then stop this. we don't need more transphobia and erasure there's enough with truscum, transmed, terfs and whatever other bullshit tumblr will pull up next
cis people don't get to use other pronouns unless they're having a persona ( ie drag kings and queens ), it's a middle finger to trans people like oh you've been fighting for this ? i don't understand how it feels at all but i'll demand the exact same thing of you even though i'm perfectly comfortable with my assigned gender, also pronouns don't mean a thing ((((:
fuck off with that "pronouns don't mean a thing" bullshit they do mean a thing if you come at me and misgender me because "pronouns don't mean a thing anyway" i'll personally beat your ass in an alleyway
social dysphoria is literally based on people misgendering and seeing us as a gender we aren't and y'all have the audacity to say it doesn't mean a thing ? the audacity to act like "they're just words" ? idk if you noticed but words were made to have a meaning
funny how only cis girls will to by he/him because "pronouns don't mean a thing", not trans girls. maybe it's because pronouns fucking mean shit ? get the fuck out of here with your transphobia and weird nonsensical rhetoric, it's just as bad as "you need body dysphoria to be trans", like fuck off with both of these statements they're from opposite sides but they're both bullshit as fuck
