okay this is kinda pointed @ hilary because it's too long for an ask and i don't feel like texting it to her so uhhh if it feels a little weird that's why
and we would just get in fights all the time and then my mom finally threw him out one night and got a pfa (which is like a 3-day long restraining order) and broke it that night to let him get clothes :|
a bit before that, though, he literally got my mom fired because he kept calling her and showing up at her work and her bosses were like "you have to stop him from doing this" and she told him he had to stop and he just....didn't. so my mom got fired. and that's when literally my life went to shit because that's the reason we lost our first house, and then she never got back into the job market and everything. all because of him.
so about a year after he moved in, my mom finally threw him out for good and shit and even though that happened they were still dating (even though she told me she was done with him for good) and eventually i found out and basically i couldn't do anything so whatever
and when we lost our house, we moved into an apartment where we could keep our dog
and he eventually got locked up (like he always does - he ahs a habit of stealing credit cards, and getting away with a misemeanor offense rather than the felony, i have no idea how) so when he got released my mom had him secretly living in our apartment's basement and one day i got phone call for her and i walked downstairs to find her because she said she was going outback or something, an di checked the basement and what do i see but THOSE TWO JUST SITTING THERE WATCHING TV LIKE NBD even though she had SWORN to me that she was doen with him and would never talk to him again. but me being the passive person i am just pretended like i wasn't seriously hurt and started silently fuming. then she just moved him upstairs like it was no fucking big deal. finally i just snapped one day and locked myself in my room and refused to unlock and i was just yelling and shit. and she took my doorknob out of the door. and finally we got evicted from there, spent years in and out of hotels and relatives' houses, and they were once again off.
as far as i know, until recently, they hadn't been talking. but then again, my mother has a habit of not telling me about him at all until it's too late and it's right there in my face. so then a few months ago she was like "what would you do if i started dating tommy again? would you stop talking to me?" and i said "i can't tell you. i can't promise anything because you know how i feel about him." and she said "well i've tried to love other peole and i just can't help who i love and i deserve to be with who i love yadda yadda" and i was just like "yeah except for the fact that he's fucked our lives up" to which she basically had no response except to keep repeating herself
and then on the third she says he's getting out of prison tomorrow, he wants me to go get him (but she said she can't because our car was a) past inspection and b) needed serious work done and was scary to drive locally)
the night of the fifth comes around and suddenly he's around and i'm pretty sure my mom went to go get him anyway
but when she came to pick me up from work on the 5th she said "tommy might be in the car still" and i said "no. he can't. just because you're dating him doesn't mean i have to fucking see him." and she said "well he might be i don't know blah blah blah" so guess who's in the fucking car when i get picked up :| then she acted like nothing was wrong and that i should be completely fine with this
then when she dropped me off she said "i'm walking around front with tommy because he's getting picked up soon" so i think oh okay he's not staying here good at least she's holding that up (because she also said he couldn't stay here)
then because of my awful sleep patterns i was still awake when she had to go pick my brother up from work at 6 am so she comes walking down the stairs (and i'm pretending to be asleep so i don't have to hear her bitch) and WHO THE FUCK COMES WALKING DOWN BEHIND HER. so obviously he HAD spent the night and seeing as she's yet to say anything about it to me i'm assuming she's not planning on it
and every night since he came home my dog has been out of her room at night, she's NEVER home to take care of him or anything, when she is home she's up in her room and all of this is a complete change from how shit was about a week ago and EXACTLY how it used to be :|
like does she think i'm not going to recognize the pattern
i'm honestly about to freak the fuck out on her tomorrow because this is RIDICULOUS
she's always chosen him over me and i brought that up to her today on the way to work and she got all offended and like that's not true
uhm, really fucking cunt
it's not fucking true?
thent ell me how he ALWAYS ends up in situations where i say i don't want him but you bring him along anyway? just fuck her and fuck this shit seriously :| she's like an immature teenager
