#make fandom inclusive

[bennymillerthots]

I feel like Benny would love a big girl, and I mean like the whole big girl, not just the fat ass and boobs, he’s the epitome of “the rolls keep Texas Roadhouse in business” he loves it

The universe/God/person running this game of Sim’s we are all stuck in really looked at big girls and said look: I present to you the perfect people to snuggle up to. Ben wants to lay on the couch with his head in your lap? Not only do thick thighs save lives, they are the perfect pillow while receiving head scratches. Anytime he catches you somewhat reclined or lying down, he’s abandoning his task and joining you for a cuddle session, regardless of what you were doing before. 

He loves pulling you on top of him, and if you make a comment or try to slide off/to the side he’s not going to accept that. Benny “I carried fellow soldiers out of combat on foot for miles to the nearest drop point, you are not going to break anything” Miller is going to put you firmly back where he wanted you, and keep you there longer. Spooning? We love a boy who is comfortable being both big and little spoon depending on his and your needs. 

I have a *whole* bit I could say about Benny and his thoughts on anyone commenting on your size, so here’s part of it and let me know if you want more. I’m picturing early in the relationship, you are at Texas Roadhouse (staying on theme here) with another couple or a small group. You go to order steak and somebody makes one of *those* comments suggesting something “healthier” on the menu and before you can even process, Benny’s already responding. He’s holding eye contact with them while saying, “sure that salad may be great for you, Karen, but steak is a great source of B12, zinc, iron and protein - and he needs his girl fueled up for later.” He ends it with a wink and turns to the server to order his own steak and another two baskets of rolls when they get the chance, please and thank you.

There are no other worrisome comments the rest of the night, the server most definitely tells all their coworkers who stare at him in adoration/respect, and at home that evening? Benny definitely follows through on his promise. Multiple times. 

In summary: get that bread, get that head, then cuddles. ❤️

[bennymillerthots]

I sent that anon this morning and let me say you did NOT disappoint!! Thank you for indulging me and my desperate need for Benny Miller content

For those just tuning in, here’s the original ask about Benny being with a big girl, including my addition about him shutting down a bodyshamer. Now for the extended look into him and his girl being insecure about her body.

First things first, health is more than just a number on a scale and MMA fighter Benny is well aware of this. I’m picturing a scenario where he accidentally overhears you make a comment on a girl’s night zoom call and ADHD brain kicks in. When you wrap up your call you find him at his computer and he tells you it's “something for his training program”. What really happens, is that when you make a self-deprecating comment later that week/the next week Ben is prepared - he was up that entire night making this spreadsheet.

If the two of you are in a group he will wait until later, but if/when you are alone he very seriously asks “what specifically you do not like and how is it impacting your goals”. You think the number on the scale is too high? Benny’s going to make you dig deeper into it (maybe right then, maybe it’s a conversation you agree to revisit after thinking by yourself) beyond just “society says this is the ideal”. If you want to change something he will support you - but he is going to ensure the focus is on the health impact, not the number on the scale.

You decide you want to feel stronger/more empowered in your body? Or improve your blood pressure/heart rate/cardiovascular health? Ben’s volunteering to build you a workout plan or help you find a trainer that you vibe with, AND he makes sure you visit your doctor to understand where you are at currently and what the ideal goal would be. You may be surprised to find you are closer than you thought, before you even begin the new regimen.

Not feeling *glamorous* during your special time with Benny? Congrats, you are presented with the tab in the google spreadsheet of different activities that increase flexibility, coordination, etc. and social media accounts of big girls within the respective community. Ben’s already a fan of yoga (I saw this HC’d somewhere, if someone sends it I’ll link it) and after looking through a few insta pages, you find yourself joining him and William at yoga. Personally I think the boys would prefer the Bikram practice due to its structure and intensity (yes I know the founder is terrible, find you a studio like mine that has tried to cut those ties).

Moral of the story is Benny’s going to say he loves you as you are, and if you want to do something for your body it should be focused on making it serve you better. He’s quick to quote or send this tiktok to anybody who tries to talk shit. Subsequently you see this tiktok and recruit William to teach it to you. The next time Benny’s tipsy/drunk you put your new skill to use and he’s screaming “THAT’S MY GIRL” from your shoulders.