tbh one of the many things that bothers me about dr/arry shippers is that they've so quick to say that dra/mione is abusive but then actively ship harry with someone who bullied him and fantasizes about the death of his friends. it literally makes no sense. is it because he's a guy he "can't be abused" or is it just that weird fetishization of white m/m ships that tumblr fandoms seem to have?










