A little introduction...
Hello all! I’m Lana, a 30 something woman who enjoys a traditional, male-led marriage. I am a subservient wife and mother, a home-school-er, and I follow a non-traditional religion. Now, for the important stuff:
Believe it or not: I’m a true inclusive, pro-trans, pro-POC, anti-fascist, feminist. I am kink-positive. I am a bleeding heart progressive liberal with a need for real justice. But the cool thing about feminism is that I can CHOOSE to be a trad wife. I can choose to enjoy domestic discipline and serving my husband in a completely submissive manner and still think domestic violence is wrong. I can be a total whore for my husband, be 100% ready to follow his lead no matter what, and still think a woman working outside of the home is fine. Her choice is as valid as mine. Female led relationships are valid. Equal partners are valid. Traditional gender roles in polyam, bisexual, gay/lesbian, and/or other LGBTQ(etc) relationships are valid. Just as male-led is valid.
That being said - I do not tolerate racism or other bs. I will not tolerate bashing of my lifestyle or my beliefs in any way. As my grandmomma always said: “If you have nothing nice to say, your silence will, at least, lend you some class.”