How to talk to good men
JN 11/18/22
Girls sometimes can be really bad when talking with good men. And I’ve come to realize that it's because of a few reasons:
You didn't grow up with your dad so you don't have a good example.
All the guys you’ve met so far are bad boys who only do what they want and don't care about you, so you have to assert yourself and say no to get what you want, otherwise you’ll never be happy.
Well, a good man cares about you and what you think, so if you reject them, they will be deeply hurt because they will think you don’t care or respect them. For men, respect is everything.
So the past few days I’ve been feeling hurt, but I had to stay silent till I know how to speak to you because, otherwise you’ll misunderstand me and you still won’t want to try to understand me.
So today, we’ll let go of the past and I’ll teach you how to talk to a good man. Try this with me, your brothers, even your dad. You’ll see a difference.
Here's a scenario, “You want to go to a bar to relax? I'm worried that people will start fighting and you’ll end up getting hurt. What about lets go to a park?”
Tell them what you’re worried about. Never say no.
Give them a suggestion.
After you say what you said, let them go.
If they go to the bar, don't make them feel guilty. Just love them.