how did u meet or develop ur dynamic!
Hi there,
Thank you for the ask!
So we actually met on here 😌 I frequented mamas blog a lot when I wanted to feel comforted, but I wasn’t in the community at all. But eventually I ended up plucking up the courage to send her an ask! We then started messaging from there, just chatting about everyday things, our interests and likes etc.
Even though I sent her the ask originally, I’m very shy and anxious so wasn’t really looking for the dynamic we have now, we just started off as really good friends and were talking daily. It did take months but Mama eventually brought this little side of me out more and more and helped me come out my shell, things just fell into place naturally after that and here we are now.
I think the key to making a dynamic like this work is communication, it’s such a vulnerable thing for both of us but it never feels forced or that it’s too much. Nothing is ever perfect but this side of us feels it, but I also have a fantastic mama so I’m very very lucky 💗. I could only ever be this way with her and her only 😌