#mamas asks!

[cg-pup]

mmm, baby? mama doesn't feel so well. is it okay if we cuddle up together? yep! just come here, under the blankets. i'll hold you close. mhmm, you can be the little spoon! i just want to hold you. we can fall asleep together like this... okay? thank you for being here for mama, she loves you very much.

[pupsiez]

Photos from yesterday! Thought you might enjoy them <3/p

THAT LOOKS SO COOL!! soryr i didnt repons faster!! i love these so much!! i love the theater and the diner and the rolelr coaster!! (?) its all so awesome awaaaa

[cg-pup]

Hello, do you have any advice for littles with pain issues? (I have a disorder that causes chronic joint pain and when the pain comes it kicks me out of littlespace :( Thx in advance <3

i'm not disabled nor do i have any chronic pain issues, but i tried asking around and google and some of my advice would be this!

chronic pain can't always be fixed fast. if you can use a heating pad or wrap or maybe warm up a stuffie in the microwave to help any aches that could be useful!

you could try laying down more often when in littlespace and doing activities that require less movement, being really careful or trying to take more littlespace naps since sleeping may help you not realize or have to engage with the pain but is a nice buffer that keeps you regressed.

take pain meds if you can before you regress if it is voluntary, imagine you're your own parent giving yourself your kids medicine to help with your boo-boos and what not :) pain medicine should help some of the pain you're experiencing especially if its prescribed medicine!

remember to take your time and listen to your body and give it all the love and care it needs. i'm sorry about your chronic joint pain and i hope that this helps! i wish i knew more about it to give better advice <3 :')

[cg-pup]

Im a new reg any tips i just wanna feel smal n littl im also closested cus im embarased n dont wanna feel yucky 😭

hmm.

it's okay to feel yucky regressing sometimes. i get that way, and i would like you to understand that it's usually out of your control. but realize and remember that you are not your feelings! you are you! this is the advice i always am pertinent to give! because it helps separate yourself from the icky intrusive thoughts.

ask yourself why you're embarrassed then dissect those reasons by explaining to yourself why they don't actually really make sense. and you'll figure out why there's no need to be embarrassed when you really look close!

figure out what your regression triggers are! things that make you feel small or make it easier for you to age dream, like coloring, watching kids shows like bluey, kicking your feet under a chair, holding things with both hands, etc.

if you feel yucky at any time remember its okay to take breaks and pause. do what makes you feel good, not what you think should make you feel good.

hopefully that helps lovely!

[cg-pup]

how have u been enjoying ur trip ? - 🎀

hello dear! i've been having lots of fun! yesterday we went rafting and the river was so comforting and cold. i'm home now, though. mostly really sleepy after a long drive. how are you sweetheart?

p.s i think you may have forgotten to turn anon on !!

[cg-pup]

Hihi! I found a cg an its my best friend I’ve had for like 2 years! :D an im super happy and they buying me a sippy, an communication cards! And stickers :D and chewlery!

oohh thats absolutely lovely! i love when that happens, it always tends to be people we are close to that we talk to already who have great potential to be lovely cgs. i hope things work out amazingly between you two! i hope you really love all your gifts! make sure to let them know how much you appreciate them :)

[cg-pup]

Hi again mama it's little mouse

I've been on and off regressing for like a week now and I'm getting a little worried I'm not gonna get big again especially when I really need to. I didn't think I was that stressed for me to need to be little so much but maybe I was? I dunno

It's honestly really tough pretending to be big when I have to talk to people I don't think I can be little around, it makes me feel tired. And I have to help people when the world is being mean to them, or at least I kinda feel like I have to or else I'm bad. Yesterday I had to pretend to be big because I had to comfort my friend who was having really mean hallucinations and I felt really bad for them that I couldn't help better

But I did get to watch totoro and angelina ballerina and had cookies and warm milk with vanilla in my old snow white mug yesterday too, it made me feel small and nostalgic and cheered me up!! I hope I can still do stuff like that even when I'm not home alone and I hope I can hide it easily

I don't want my mommy finding out about my regression yet, partly cuz I'm worried she'll think it's weird and will yell at me and say I'm making excuses to get out of my adult things I have to do, and partly cuz I'm worried she'll force me to be exactly like I was when I was a kid and make me cuddle her and show her affection when I don't want to

Sorry this is a big big ramble. I hope the world is being nice to you mama, and if it isn't I hope it gets better

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sorry that i took so long to get to this. wasnt sure what to say! i know it can be hard pretending to be big but i want you to know youre doing a great job and im really proud of you. i hope you can keep doing those small things that make you feel little too.

i really hope neither of those things happen with your mom. :( maybe if the latter happens it could b a bonding experience in a way, but of course thatd only work if your mom respected your boundaries.

i hope the world is kind to you little one.

[cg-pup]

hi mama….. u seem reallie sweet an nice. my cg an partner of almost three years blocked me on everything two months ago, it’s been really hard cause i regress almost all tha time …. i really wanted my frien to take care of me temporarily but she said no :( i trying my best but i feel really alone, i not used to taking care of myself…. do u have any advice? also im a baby seal and sea otter regressors i dont sees many of those around wuauwa 🦭

hello sweetie! sorry that it took so long for me to reply, busy life busy wife!

i really had to think about this one for a while. i don't have a lot of advice that isn't already out there but one thing i really like to do when small by myself is to watch bedtime stories online. :) you can find free ones on youtube!

since you're a baby seal you could also find baby seal or baby aquamarine animals to watch online to help you feel like you're not alone!

try talking to yourself as if you were your caregiver! for example, if you want a CG to tell you you're doing a good job, tell that to yourself! "good job little seal/otter!" and do things for yourself that you imagine your CG doing. (≧∀≦)ゞ

hopefully that helps a little bit! i know its not much. <3