details: mentions of using contraception . not much of warnings other than that . anon request . all headcanons are my opinion, i'm not forcing you to agree with them! . all dividers used are from @cafekitsune . all pictures used are from pinterest
a/n: i love him i love him i love him i love him when yall see this man i want you to immediately think of me and the im his main im his side im every woman that's in his mind sound because he's my goat oh my fosh 🤑 anyways, enjoy babes! thanks for the ask, this was highkey fun to make.
your no. 1 supporter
this man is the greenest green flag when it comes to support and encouragement
you saw this gorgeous dress on display but not sure if it'll look good on you? "go ahead and buy that dress, you look good in anything." you want to sign up for sewing classes? he's immediately doing extensive research on all the sewing workshops nearby and background-checking all the employees. you're struggling to carry all your shopping bags? he's dropping everything to rush to your side and help you carry them to the car.
date nights. date nights. i can't really envision him going out to expensive restaurants (idk why, i'm sorry), but i feel like he would prefer simpler date nights as well, like just sitting down on the sofa with a box of pizza and face masks bc u insisted, watching some corny rom com movie
this man is rich rich. given his job, there's no way you would ever be short on money. he feels bad because his job doesn't really give him a lot of time to spend with you, but he makes up for it by transferring millions and millions of won into your card every month to spend on clothes, manicures, skincare, whatever you needed
pouting to him because you accidentally spent all the money he had given you? no worries, he'll simply press a kiss to your crown and transfer more money, giving you a little extra "just because".
god i love this man
lives for forehead, hairline, crown kisses bc let's be for real, this man is huge. i'm not exactly sure of his height but let's just assume he's super tall, and you have to be standing on your tiptoes just to be able to kiss him properly
because of this, it would be more convenient for him to press kisses to the top of your head before he rushes off for work
very protective
his years as a mercenary have honed his awareness skills (??), and he's really good at detecting threats to you. for example, there's a man that keeps following you around, and you're not even aware of it, but manager nam's already excusing himself to go beat the guy up - or kill him, it depends on his mood that day.
you don't ever need to worry your pretty little head whenever you're around him, because he's already taken care of every threat in the area before you're even aware of them <3
if he's busy on a mission tho, he'll get a bunch of bodyguards to follow u around bc he's just gentlemanly like that
(borderline overly-protective but you beg to differ)
i feel like he would def be like manager kim and hide his occupation for you.
sure, he did mention lightly that he's a contract bodyguard, which is why he's so rich, but he refused to tell you anything other than that, because in his words he has to "protect the clients' privacy" (he's lying he doesn't mention the part he's also a contract killer / mercenary). i mean, it wasn't exactly a lie, right?
he can't say he's never thought of starting a family with you, but between his busy schedule and the constant threats looming behind his shoulder, he would want to wait until everything settles down before giving you a child. until then, he's very strict on using condoms and ensures you take the pills before and after yall do the deed.
but when you guys do have children, he would be an amazing father to the child, no matter their gender.
as a girl dad, he would definitely dotes on her like he does to you, but he's really strict on ensuring she doesn't end up too bratty and constantly trains her in self defense so that she's capable of protecting herself and her mother from creeps. your daughter would def grow up to be a total hothead and extremely protective of her mother, and insists on having "girls night" and literally kicks her depressed father out of their shared bedroom lol. tbh, manager nam's just a total softie for his family
if he was a boy dad tho, the tables would turn because i feel like he would have really strict training regiments and standards for his son, and they're both fueled by the constant reminder that they need to protect you <3 always fighting for your attention it's almost funny lol. until your son grows up and petty arguments turn into full-blown fights that leave you fuming and refusing to talk to them for days because they broke your favourite vase
in conclusion, manager nam is a total simp that would bend over backwards just for you. if he respects and admires manager kim, he 100% worships and adores you with all his heart. every day you spend with him feels like a dream <3
10/10, total green flag that would do anything to keep you happy. as long as he sees you smiling lovingly at him, he's happy.
Your mother died when you were young leaving him to raise you on his own
Since his job didn't permit him to be by your side at all times, he left you in the care of a trusted neighborhood grandmother of sorts
Eventually he left the AKL to return back to you and raise you as a proper father
Now, his job as a mercenary paid him well, his job at the construction agency paid him very well, and his job at A.R.E.S pays him very very well so he is able to provide his daughter with a comfortable life
Despite this he only raises you with what you need and not what you want
He does this to ensure that you won't end up too spoiled and have a bad attitude
And since you are his sole daughter he trains you in martial arts from a young age and he wants to be sure you can protect yourself
"Punch right here" he points to a spot on his arm and you little fist makes contact and he most definitely felt nothing but made a show of falling back for the theatrics and to make your little self smile
"I defeated papa!" a happy voice rang out as your little body ran over to him and smacked his chest
"You sure did. Let's do that a few more times, okay? Then we can go watch your favorite cartoon" He said as he got up
He is incredibly protective of his daughter and almost never lets you out of his sight
When you were little, he would let you sleep in his bed when you got scared but as you grew older he tried to foster your independence and would return you to your room and pat your back until you fell asleep before leaving
Like I mentioned before his job pays him very well so he would get the best clothes and toys for you to ensure you would be comfortable
Felt like you were safest in his arms and would carry you almost everywhere
When you grew up he wanted to make sure you would still have a close bond and made a tradition of taking evening walks or watching movies and tv shows at night
Also, as your grew you began to look more and more like him (the first born children sometimes look more like their father)
You have his dark hair and sharp eyes but you've got more energy than he does
Tends to call you by your name more or sometimes "kid" (affectionately)
He knocks on your door before opening it to see you still laying in bed clutching the IKEA polar bear he got you "Time to wake up, kid. You've got school today"
"Don't wanna go..." you muttered back face burried in the polar bear
"I'm sure you don't, but we can go see a movie after school's out, alright?"
He always let's you do the buttons on his suits
Fostered any hobbies that you had, took you on trips and had you try different foods to expand your palate and knowledge
He really is an incredible father and anyone would be lucky to be his child
In his opinion, you were easier to handle as a child since you were very predictable
He knew when you were hungry, when you were tired, when you were sick, when you were thirsty, when you wanted to play
But now you're a teenager, you weren't as vocal and a little more closed off
Until he got used to your new teenage mannerisms, he would have to ask you how you were feeling
Also, he did not put up with your attitude. He was a rather firm father and he had no problem with telling you when your attitude was out of line
"(name)" he said in a firm manner. "I'm not sure if my absence has caused you to think that you could act out of line but that is not what's going on" he looked you in the eye
You looked to the side trying to avoid his firm gaze "'m sorry". Your fifteen-year old self felt like a soldier under his disciplining gaze
"I know you are, so you need to change your behavior from now on, do you understand me?" he placed his hands on your shoulders
"Yes, dad" you nodded "I understand"
"Good"
He had placed you in martial arts from childhood and here you were in your teenage years competing
Whenever you stood in the center fighting against another teen your age he would always be giving you a critical eye and criticisms after your matches
But as always, he praised you. You were his daughter. The daughter of A.R.E.S' 'world class' fighter. His genes went strongly. No wonder you always won first place.
"Your arm could have been higher for your third block"
"Dad, this ain't a battleground...it's a martial arts match" you pointed your first place trophy at him
He ruffled your head messing up your hair "I know, I know. You did good, as always kiddo"
After Minjis kidnapping arc, his first idea was to make sure you never ran into Manager Kim, Jincheol Park, and Hansu Seong
Okay, so that didn't work
Apparently, you attended the same school as Dabin so Jincheol got a hold of you and told you that your father was in the hospital (he also included that he was the one who beat your father up)
Jincheol pulled him into the 'dad's-with-daughters-club' which Nam did not want to be in but really didn't have a choice since you don't exactly oppose Jincheol
You easily got along with Jincheol who was going on and on about how Nam had raised an amazing daughter who was mature and well-behaved and such and such and how he wished how that you were friends with Dabin and Jesus Christ his smile probably stretched over his face and around the world when you told him that you and Dabin had your duo
He went on and on about how much you looked like your father and how Nam should be proud of having a daughter like you
(They did apologize for beating up your father)
And GOD FORBID you date Taehun Seong, Nam would NOT be happy
I'm sure he'd live with it but would not like it. Like at all
"Really? Him?"
You blinked a few times "Were you expecting me to bring Choi San in through the door?"
"With how much you talk about him? Yes"
"Well- okay fair"
He doesn't really understand k-pop but he'll buy you albums whenever you ask, he'll get you everything you need for your photocards, he'll buy you concert tickets and whatnot
Anything to keep you from running your mouth about all the concepts he doesn't understand, granted he's an ex-mercenary
He loves you dearly, but he doesn't care about Wonyoungism. But he'll buy your skincare
Does he know what salicylic acid is and what it does? No, but he trusts you to know what you're buying
And although he loves you dearly, he DESPISES parent-teacher conferences (he's had a few of your female elementary school teachers hit on him before)
When he gifts you things for christmas it's gifts like vinyl, kpop albums, makeup (that you make a list for), new shoes, clothes, ect
But for your birthday, he gifts more precious items, as he sees your birthday to be of highest importance. He's gifted you Cartier, Van Cleef, and would have you
He encourages you to do what you want but there are some jobs he's restricted you from. Like the military. But he did allow you to join the JROTC since he thought it would push you towards ideas of valor and loyalty. He doesn't want you to end up like him, stuck in a mercenary group with killing everyone being the only way out. Doesn't matter if naval aviation is different from the AKL
"C'mon, I wanna be a pilot!" you said as you lifted yourself up and down on the counter in a vertical press-up fashion
"Then fly an airplane" he said nonchalantly
"I don't wanna fly a commercial plane! I wanna fly a fighter jet!" you leaned on the kitchen counter as he cut up the vegetables in precise pieces
"Doesn't matter, it's not happening pet"
"Ughhhh"
Imagine you're someone who enjoys true crime and you're sitting on the couch watching a particular gruesome episode of your favorite show while you're waiting for your dad to come home
You sat on the couch with your knees drawn to your chest as Chicago PD played on the screen. Your heard your father come in through the front door
You heard your fathers footsteps stop behind the couch as the tv screen showed the cops pulling a decapitated body out of the water and cutting to a scene of the decapitated head
"What on Earth are you watching" he said
"Chicago PD. It's getting good" you replied, not even turning around but keeping your eyes glued to the screen as they gave a close-up of the body
"Jesus. Whatever happened to Bluey or Kipper the Dog?" he asked as he tossed his suit jacket onto a nearby chair
"Dad quiet, they're examining the body" you held up your pointer finger to 'shush' him
He usually doesn't fuss too much over your grades (I don't think he did that well in school) but he just cares about the effort that you put in towards your grades more so than the result
When you were younger, you got a really bad grade on a certain subject so when you got out of school, you ran home and dug through your mailbox to find your report card and tuck it into your pants and you shuffled through the house heading through barricade "Dad" giving him robotic one worded response
You tucked the report card under your mattress and hid in your room the rest of the evening and shuffled downstairs for dinner
The entire meal you avoided his eyes and he had to bribe it out of you with cake and a trip to the zoo
He wasn't mad at you for the bad grade but he was disappointed that you hid the report card
You stopped hiding your report cards since your grades got better and in your teen years, you had no reason to hide report cards since your school had a website for parents to check on grades
Additionally, when you were little, he didn't know anything about what clothes little girls liked to wear so he bought what you pointed your finger at
You ended up with a leather aviator hat with goggles that you begged your dad for at the Intrepid in New York City, a baseball shirt, cargo shorts with a water gun tucked into your waistband
like this (You were also the pinnacle of Yotsuba from Yotsuba&! when you were a child)
or you would wear a tutu instead of shorts with knee-high socks with stripes and hot pink sneakers and it was fashion
In your teen years, he would just give you his card to shop with for all your clothes
Messy pigtails with bows that would be crazy lopsided at the end of the day turned into long hair pulled back neatly into a claw clip
Dirty fingernails from catching cicadas turned into perfectly manicured fingers wrapping your knuckles in tape after a match
Wet t-shirts from spending afternoons catching frogs turned into feet in the water while fishing with Nam in the summer
A portrait of you and him stood proudly on his nightstand. Him in his military uniform and you in your JROTC uniform. He looks at it every day and brought it with him to the A.R.E.S base
And cause you learn to fight, you've gotten into a few fights with girls at school who've tried to pour milk on you but you pulled a pocket knife on them
The car ride home was silent as Nam drove you back from school. Early pick up and a four day suspension. You poked at the leather of the BMW car seat mentally preparing for whatever lecture your father was going to give you
He slowed the car down at a red light and let out a sigh The signature dad 'I'm gonna say something to scold you' sigh. Nam could swear up and down that he's never sighed like that until you came along
"y/n" he began and you slowly looked over at him
"If you were going to fight then you should've kept it under wraps. I thought that I had taught you to plan for damage control"
"Um" how were you supposed to respond to that?
"Now, I don't know what this girl did to make you lash out - so much so as you pulled a knife on her-" Nam said as the light turned green and he began to drive again
"Oh please, it was a Swiss Army Knife. Those are lousy weapons"
"Do you think the school board cares about that? Especially since
"Her father is on the school board" "Her father is on the school board"
You said as the same time
"Yeah yeah" you waved it off. "He can't expell me I'm the best student AND! The school won't release this to keep their image good" you looked over at him "The only issue is shutting up the dad" you said as you pointed your finger at him
"First of all, put your finger down. Secondly, don't change the subject - I'll deal with you at home. And thirdly, leave her father to me"
Tbh, he never understood half of what you did (or said) but you were his only daughter and he loves you so much
