This my first blog on this app so apologize if I’m not doing something correct ( but I’ll learn )
The subject I want to hit on is FASHION but not JUST ANY FASHION - not what’s “ socially acceptable” … forgot to state I live in Sweden But I was raised since I was 2 in Houston Texas till 20 tears old ( another story for another time) bc if it was up to me .. I’d still be home in the South babyy!! But if don’t live in Sweden, people are so quick to judge and lord do they have shit to say.. yet they still with the same hair style they had since the 80s and SCARED to actually show them selfs.
I’m so happy and feel so blessed because I don’t care what.. if you ain’t help Pay my bills, raise my son all that good stuff … then honestly I love that you talking about me and keep me name known ! Miss Texas Aka Diamond ( no I didn’t give myself that name ) but Miss M.Monique babyy and if you do help me with any of those, then I know you love and accept me for the person I be and never judge.
Excuse my adhd rambling 😅 but it’s all real trill points made. What I want to stress is BE YOU! Why are people so scared to dye their hair ?? I’m natural red head, not ginger but some type gold that I was always told from hair stylist to family and friends never to touch bc it supposedly so rare 🙄 … Boring… hehe so I went straight black hair… then that got to boring so I used a product to fade the color then added purple … then that got to boring so I went ahead and put turquoise color and pink so I was looking like a hot mess bc I was doing it myself for the first time thinking I’m some professional color mixologist😅😂 BUT you LEARN from your MISTAKES!! And now I faded and bleached ( put a little to much stress on me hair using L’Oréal bleach. … should of stuck to manicpanic bleach … not saying L’Oréal bleach is bad but for my hair I and from what I’ve learned is you should of stuck to the same products.
Now I have this beautiful pink/peach and some back purple color - my mermaid look and I love it!!
I’ve got compliments and that’s Great, I’ve got looks like I’m crazy and that’s cool - to each it’s own but my favorite was the younger generation ( the young adults in there 20s - that age you finding YOU ! ) and I’ve had so many come up to me, how they live the color but how I’m not scared or worried and noticing there howling back so being able to give young adults both girls and boys to be them and it a supposed to be friend is embarrassed or negative … then baby let them go !!!
I’m also tattooed up. And ofc I get right away judgements but give me 2 mins and you’ll feel stuiped / bad for pew judging someone . I’m not punk rocker or metal ( but if that’s what make you feel you then do it ) I had a punk skater stage at like 16 but we go through stages . Now I sometimes customize my own clothing but I can go from sporty - adidas , Nike’s or whatever from top to toe . Change to chill with my lyle Scott hat and sweater , dress up in that little black dress to dresses that are so sweet and “Innocent” summer dresses . Shorts and my main love body Suits in all types !!
So don’t ever feel like you have to be what people want or except you to wear or be , act whatever it he case might be. And please if for example 4 of your best friends like that style but you not feelin it… then don’t!!! And I can’t stress it enough to my young ladies and boys ( queens ) or whoever even ones in my age. If whoever can’t accept you for being you. Then bye bye !!
Sorry this blog was a little scattered and went off my main points but I felt these points are so important and especially in this time when 16 year olds have pressure to look like like us grown adults with lip fillers and all that ! NO BABYY!!! Atleast wait till maybe 27-28 of age to do any face design - BUT ONLY AND AS LONG AS YOUR DOING IT FOR YOU! I myself do some face design but I started at age 29. And for my own securities.
Well for now ..: be true to you! Have fun ! And most of all @FearlessYourself baby
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