#marlinisms

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I LOVE BEING FAT TRANS AND A MAGNAMON

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Once again shoutout to disabled people who Cannot do certain things

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WARFRAMESTUFF REBLOGGED MY GARUDA ART AND SEEING MY OWN IMAGE ON MY DASH IS. OH MY GOD OH MY GOD OH MY GOD

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Does anyone else get exhausted when splitting a new alter, even if you don't really realize you're splitting?

For example, I'm pretty sure we have a new alter. Xyr name is Solen, and xyr still getting used to being in and around the system, switching, and existing in the first place (mostly that last one - I can understand lol)

And, coincidentally, we tend to get really really tired when we have a new alter forming.

Does anyone else experience this? I feel like it's implied in a lot of posts, but never explicitly confirmed.

(Note: splitting can absolutely be replaced with forming here, depending on if you see a distinction!)

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I've been trying to play Spore all day but, just after figuring out which mod was causing an immediate crash to desktop, we get the black planet/world glitch and even a clean install hasn't helped. :[

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Addendum on my last post: the pro recovery and anti recovery tags are both fucking vile. Find some fucking balance and see a therapist, holy shit.

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One thing I keep noticing is like... Idk, I guess the best way to say it is that some of the people on this site seriously have no nuance.

Someone else made some really good points on how disabilities and mental health issues of all kinds are, in fact, disabling and issues, and that recovery shouldn't be mandatory or a moral issue. I agree in pretty much all cases!! (We do not and never will respect harmful paraphiles. We respect chronic pain havers who can't bathe and such. THAT is what I'm talking about here.)

I don't think it's anti-recovery to understand the fact that health, recovery, and quality of life is going to look different for everyone. And not to mention, again, none of these things are mandatory or moral.

And there's so many posts that put health in the hands of the individual, even on the level of teeth brushing, and showering - small things that are often inaccessible or not worth it for any level of sick person, and it's so fucking disappointing and, indeed, genuinely harmful.

And, chances are, we know what we're doing is socially unacceptable, or "bad for us", or "making us worse". We know. If we were ABLE to do the thing you want, we would have.

Y'all need to be better all around. Stop guilting disabled people into "taking better care of themselves" like you know what's better for the individual. And for the rest of you, stop hurting yourselves on purpose and others in the process - if you can't be recovered, be careful.

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Re: my last reblog

I'm bothering to read through that essay to the best of my ability (and I highly recommend it) but, good lord, we need to be nicer to lower-literacy havers. Especially people who can't improve, or have to spend the energy on something else.

The thought of "we need to educate ourselves the best we can, and train ourselves to think critically" can and should coexist with "not everyone can do this, and we owe it to each other to uplift each other"