Alternat Ways Of Matching Lovemaps
If you want to get back together with your ex, then you need to learn how to read someone's lovemap correctly.
Reading it the wrong way: Let's say that you were a guy and you asked a girl what types of guys she likes. She tells you that she likes the smart, nerdy types and likes them because they're different. Because you happen to be more of a jock type, you immediately pull back and think that you don't have a chance with this girl.
Reading it the right way: Not all girls will give you as big a hint as the one in this example. You should pay attention toe the last line that she "likes them because they're different." This means that she's just looking for uniqueness as one of her lovemap specifications and that you don't have to turn yourself into a nerd just to please her.
Even if you were a jock type, you could still match her lovemap by showing her that you have a unique hobby or talent for example. Like if you learned how to play the harmonica when everyone else was into drums and guitars. Just show her something about you that makes you unique or different.
There are more examples of matching someone's lovemap and a clear guide on reading lovemaps correctly in John Alex Clark's "THE LOVEMAP CODE."