I've been bi for as long as I remember, but I told myself I'm just curious. Through middle school until now, I still find myself attracted to girls. I even had sex w/ a girl before a guy years l8r. 8/10 I am into to guys, but I also realize my bisexuality isn't going anywhere. I support LGBTQ fiercely, but I always tell people/myself that I'm str8 bc I'm usually with a guy anyway, but l8ly I can't shake the idea of coming out. - Is it even worth the disapproval if I'll prbly be w/ a guy anyway?
it sounds like you’re bi with a preference, yeah!! and it makes you just as valid as the next person tbh -- there’s no wrong way to be bi. coming out is purely your decision and yeah you’ll deal with a fair amount of biphobes and homophobes saying “you’re just confused” and ultimately “i told you so” just like a whole lot of other people ???? but coming out does have its good aspects as well and ultimately it’s your decision to come out to everybody or a to a few people or not at all