Inquiring minds need to know: are you married, or do you use ‘my wife’ more casually?
(not meant to be accusatory, just curious, feel free to ignore :3)
Oh, it’s sweet of you to ask! I’m in a long-term relationship, and we’re engaged! I proposed really casually about 3-4 years ago now, but the last few years have been so non-stop that we literally have not had the time (or money, or energy hahaha) to actually do it.
I’ve been with my partner for 10 years now! We’ve cohabitated officially for 6, and have two doggies. They’re bigender, but I tend to call them my wife, mostly because we’re perceived as lesbians by most people IRL and it’s easier not to explain all the facets of our identities to IRLs who might not get it/care.
Thank you for the question, though! I’m always happy to answer stuff 🤗💖