Just out of curiosity (and if it's comfortable for you) how did you meet the Man You Married™
Hello lovely!
I have, in fact, been asked this before and since the story has yet to change (no time machine interference, etc) I will just copy and paste that answer if it’s alright with everyone:
How did I meet the Mister you ask? So, long story short, I moved.
Hah, I’m lame, I know. I left my home state of California because I was working a lot more than having a life since it cost so much, so when my friend decided she was moving home to another state, she said I should come home with her, especially since I had just had my heart broken.
Like, shattered. Finding out you’re the other woman when you were pretty blindly happy? Not fun. So, after scraping my pride off the ground and apologizing to the girlfriend who was being cheated on (she was nice and understanding that I had no clue about her) I decided to not let the state hit me in the ass on my way out.
I left, got a job, lived with my friend. Made new friends, started dating ALL the boys. And I do mean, like, all of them. Casually because screw the patriarchy or whatever, I was getting over a broken heart by kissing people is what I’m saying, you know?
Anyway, the Mister lived in the state I moved to and he told me later that he knew he was going to marry me the second he saw me. He was pretty laser focused on getting my attention and I ended up ending things with the guy I was casually seeing at the time (for more than a few reasons tbh) and started dating the Mister.
Three months later we eloped.
That was almost 13 years ago.
(edited for the fact that it’s been 13 years now)












