Now one thing above all else, you’re not alone. I know exactly the feeling of wanting to seek help from overly whatever parents, but thinking its not right. Here’s your answer, what you feel is right, just because others might technically have it better off than you, the pain you feel is no different than anyone else. Hell, I’m in the same boat as you and there's no way knowing if I have it better or worse, but it doesn't matter, overbearing families can destroy you and make you feel horrible about yourself. Maybe they do it out of love, over protection, preparation, or whatever but that honestly doesn't make it feel any better.
I wish I had some answer to make everything better, but I really don’t. I’m going through the same thing and the best thing I know how to do is ranting and venting about it until I feel like I've gotten my emotions out. What you need is someone who is there for you and willing to listen and just, help you through life. Know this, Blood Family is not the same as an emotional family, contrary to the belief you can move away, you don’t have to tolerate them all your life, most likely you can’t do it now, or 5 years in the future or even 10, but one day you will be able to, one day you’ll be free from them.
If you need someone there for you until that day comes, to be your listening ear, or just a friend, I’m here for you, and you can always talk to me when ever you want, I’d be happy to vent right back at you about basically the same problems, trust me.
-Mod Primordius