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Zed food aesthetic! For @titanicmonarchzoneact1!

Zed is one of my favorite characters from the Tetra Crew! I hope you enjoy this!

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(part 1) hi, i have kind of a big problem right now. i'm a lesbian, and my male coworker asked me to go out with him. i agreed even though i didn't want to, which i shouldn't have, but i was literally panicking, and i didn't know how to turn him down. it was actually really serious bc as he was asking me i starting getting dizzy, and after i agreed, my vision kind of blurred, i felt nauseous, and felt like i was going to pass out.

(part 2) i actually had to get a drink of water and sit in the back room for a minute. i think this may have been a panic attack? so i have two questions i guess, is that something that you’ve ever heard happening to other lesbians after being asked out by a man? i don’t know if that just happened bc i’m a lesbian or if it’s something i should be concerned about. it’s never happened to me before. and my second question is, do you have any advice on how to back out of this date?

(part 3) i thought about just going, but i really don’t think that i can. my stomach physically hurts thinking about it. but he’s a really sweet guy and i don’t want to hurt his feelings. and i can’t even come up with an excuse like i’m sick or something bc i have to work with him. i even thought about just being honest with him and telling him i’m gay, but i just can’t out myself. I’m sorry this is so long but I would really appreciate any possible advice you might have

First of all, so sorry this got left in the queue for so long and I hope you’ve managed to sort it out.

But in case you haven’t; You had a panic attack. For whatever reason, you felt you couldn’t just say no (and I know that’s a really hard thing to say to anyone, never mind men who may react in a dangerous way) and you panicked.If it’s the very first time you’ve ever had a panic attack, I wouldn’t fret about it too much. If they happen often, you may want to see a doctor and get some help in controlling them. Things like CBT and, sometimes, medication can calm your anxiety.As for how to back out of the date; go to him and say ‘I’m really sorry but you caught me by surprise and I didn’t want to hurt your feelings, but I just don’t want to date you.’ If he pushes for a reason, you don’t have to give him one. ‘I just don’t.’ and walk away. If feel like you can’t do that, you can say something like ‘I’m just not dating right now.’

Good luck. And I am so sorry this was stuck in the Ask queue for a while!

–Mod Tee

I want to add that even though panic attacks are very unpleasant, they are not harmful or dangerous in any way. You don’t have to worry about your health. 

-mod Fiora

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does ecolo know that nintendo exists and does he have a nintendo switch as a result

Sure does-