Hiya sibi! I wanted to know what demisexual means(genuinely curious as a fellow bisexual) Also, how are you? Is the heat any better there? I hope you are not taking a toll on yourself for finishing all the kinktober stories; Ik you'll serve🫶🏽
Demisexual means that you only start to form sexual interest in a person once you got to know them and you formed a positive emotional bond with them. So in a relationship that could mean you would have to date the person for some time before you want to have sex with them, before that you aren't really interested in it at all.
For me personally, I still can see when people are attractive but I don't really feel any need to make-out with them or to have sex with them UNTIL I got to know them and formed a safe, positive emotional bond with them. (Which btw doesn't mean it happens everytime I formed a bond with someone, it has to be a romantic bond). And in general, I don't feel the need to have sex, like I legit don't get the urge or feel like I'm going crazy just because I haven't had sex with another person in xyz time. I don't NEED sex to function yk.
Which also, for me, means that sometimes I start getting attracted to people I have never even figured I would be attracted to JFDAJ something about their personality or the way they treat fellow living beings or how they live by their morals suddenly makes them attractive to me and I go "huh, it really is all about personality for me, isn't it?"
