I'm 5 years older and I think Chandler is cute (not hot because he feels like a small child to me) & I do feel a little creepy for that sometimes, but I'm not lusting after him haha! I just think he's a cute guy and he seems really genuine & nice, and I don't think there's anything wrong with that! Women are made to believe that liking a younger man is gross and bad, but yet it's perfectly acceptable for the roles to be reversed. Don't feel bad ladies!!
aah i’m so sorry for my late reply, ali. and exactly! it’s completely fine to find someone “cute”, but obviously being sexually attracted to a minor is a different story. obviously there’s a lot of double standards when it comes to girls liking younger men (men who are not minors) since, for some reason, it is the norm for the man to be older? yeah i don’t get that either haha.
anyway, i hope you’re having a lovely day and i’m so sorry for getting back to you so late!











