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Sliding into the summer! Today is the last day of school this school year. I’m so ready for some micro adventures. Ready to spend some time with these kids that seem to grown like weeds. Ready to help them grow through life experience ready for year 6, and year 1 Remember you don’t need to rush around today to get everything done. Just let it be, take some time today or tomorrow when ever you break up to be calm, to top up your energy, your teapot. #family #summerholidays #schoolsoutforsummer #mumoftwinstwice #summerholidays2022 #summerchaoscontrol # https://www.instagram.com/p/CgQ9Txts_Jw/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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I shouted at my boy earlier. I’m not proud, I’m deeply saddened by it. Im hugely regretful Infact. But Why did I? Because I was scared, scared because he wouldn’t listen again about getting out of the pool, scared because he crawled across the lid as it tipped and I saw him fall forward, he loves water but he has no fear, no, self control when it comes to danger. I’m terrified he’s going to end up drowning. I’m scared because this heat is setting fire to the earth. This may seem dramatic, but I’ve worried about the world we are creating for our kids for a long time. Worried to the point of anxiety sometimes. I alone can’t change the world. I alone can’t leave this world habitable for my kids. But I can do as much as I can. While some are loving the temps, splashing in the pool, drinking beer and laughing about how many times your mum Said god it’s hot there are others out there trying to fight fires. Not just here in uk. All over the world. This is not something I post about on my feed I try and stay away from news, stay away from the accounts that fuel my anxiety, but today it’s hard to forget that the world is getting hotter. I’m also feeling sad that today I’ve lost a dear friend, someone who always had the right words when I would post things like this. Not only that she was going to make me some of the most delicious cheese scones and now I’m going to have to try and make them myself. Tonight I feel sad, hot, and a little bit terrified for my kids if I’m honest. #letshopewecancoolourtomorrows #mumslife #mumsofinstagram #mumoftwinstwice #whymummyswears https://www.instagram.com/p/CgM_LMUsg77/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Sometimes, we have this grand plsn of what we want out of life, sometimes it happens others it so far from what we are actually living it scares us. I was taking it to a journalist yesterday about my story. How I got to where I am today. It’s so far from my life plan that often I can’t believe I get to live this life. I didn’t want kids, I wanted to live in the city, be a graphic designer, marry a man with an accent. (I blame @antanddec for this) Yet now. I have twins, twice, I’m more messy creative than perfect graphic design. I live in rural Notts with my husband who lived up the hill from me when I was a kid. So no accent there. Like I get to live this life yet I never planned any of it. So why then do we bang on about planning all of the time? Planning for our goal, planning for summer, planning our perfect birth. Because with out that plan we have no direction, I wanted to be a graphic designer so on my work experience I liked for something creative, a local company, a family company, my now husbands family actually. I would never have met him. He would never have met me, I’d never have. Been his stalker 🤣(another story) He wouldn’t have shown me what family life could be like, I would never have met my amazing friends @emmaolechnowicz @oneaboutsue @helen_b32 had that plan not been created in the first place. Now I believe everything happens for a reason & while it’s not the plan I had in mind the direction was always there. #directionandplanning #mumlife #mumoftwinstwice #motherhood #marriedmyteencrush #businessowner #homemaker #mumof4 https://www.instagram.com/p/Cfay8rhMz41/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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It’s Friday I mean this Friday won’t compare to last Friday I’m sure. Especially as I’m starting the day at the dentist. But our days are what we make them right? We can spend them in the rain clouds or find the brightest rainbow. Ultimately we choose! What are you choosing today? Pics by @brandingphotographeruk @visibilityschooluk #wechoose #raincloudsorrainbows #mumoftwinstwice https://www.instagram.com/p/CdfO2MgsTRy/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Right You lovely Mama’s  I’m offering up an amazing opportunity for you next week.  Part of My Wabi-Sabi way of life Program is being delivered starting Monday 16th May (Thats next week) For a minute fraction of the the cost of the main Wabi-Sabi Way Of Life program.  Here is what you need to know!  Every session is at 8pm  Wabi- Sabi loosely means  embracing the imperfect, going with the flow and finding beauty in life!  Monday 16th May -Life -  Start with Mug Of Life & Where are you at right now, how full is you teapot, thinking about how we get more energy and less stress,  Thursday 19th May - Flow- What experiences have lead you to toady? What is your story? Where are the passion projects hidden inside of you and what are they? Monday 23rd May - Beauty - Where, who, what do you want to be. What would your ideal life look like? Thursday 26th may - Imperfection- Taking micro Messy action towards this new vision of what life could hold. What are the next steps, how can we make sure that dream becomes reality?     Plus we will have a celebration & look at our wins of the past two weeks  You also get a bonus one to one with me to go deeper into what #bestlife looks like to you.  This can be taken (Day times) during the two weeks or after to really help you go forward  All this for just £125 or we can create a payment plan just ask in a DM  There are only 10 spots so everyone gets as much of me as possible and you can make connections with each other. Because together we raise higher.  DM me to book on or for more information.  #mumlife #motherhood #mumoftwinstwice #mumlife #mumsofinstagram #mumofboys #twinstwice #mumof4 https://www.instagram.com/p/CdXfNHiMl97/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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I love an adventure. We’ve not had many over the past few months as priority has been about the barn renovation. I’m not gonna lie, it’s had a knock on effect to the rest of the house. Stuff being moved from room to room to make way for renovations, piles of office & craft stuff in our family room. And the kids getting a bit of cabin fever due to being stuck home while daddy fixes the barn. That’s why I joined the health club, to get us out adventuring again. That’s why I’ve really had to use my strategies to the max, to keep things straight in the house and not get overwhelmed by it. That’s why now we are starting to be able to permanently relocate my office, Chris’s office I’m going to be working through parts of my own program again to get back on top of the things that we’ve moved around. The strategies are always there to use at different times, even for me! Time to add adventures into the schedule once again too. Life is all about balance and it’s ok to tip the scale either way from time to time. #thewabisabiwayoflife #wabisabimum #motherhood #mumlife #mumoftwinstwice #twinmum #twins #multiplemum #mumofgirls #mumofboys #overwhelmedmum #mumsofinstagram #mumbloggeruk #mumsofinstagram https://www.instagram.com/p/CdFba4Ustoo/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Meal times can be so stressful. Making sure the kids get fed but then making sure they get veggies in them too. That is why I’m so excited about this week. Tomorrow 3rd May My first ever guest on Tuesday Twin Triage is the award winning @thechildrensnutritionist Sarah is a Registered Dietitian, ex NHS Consultant child nutritionist of 22 years and founder of The Children’s Nutritionist™ She’s going to debunk those generational habits that we’ve picked up from society about feeding our kids. Hands up who’s coming. 🙋🏼‍♀️ If you have any questions for Sarah pop them in the comments below. Or come along to the live tomorrow at 10.30 and get involved in the conversation. See you there 10.30 the Chaotic Motherhood Tribe - Facebook #childrensnutrition #feedingkids #mumoftwinstwice #motherhood #twintriage #motherhoodunplugged #channelmumvillage #mumvillage #ittakesavillage #mumsofinstagram #mumlifeuk https://www.instagram.com/p/CdDCAyrMShX/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Bank Holiday Monday Just For Fun. Tell me in the comments. #mumlife #mumoftwinstwice #twinmum #mumof4 #multiplemum #mumofgirls #mumofboys https://www.instagram.com/p/Cce3sCcM9Lt/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=