i am. or have been for a few months feeling like i may have outgrown my relationship with my girlfriend of 5 years. I've spoke to her about it, and I finally discussed it with my mom today too and everyone recognizes that emotionally her and I are in very different places but after 4 years of being in a long distance relationship, 2 months before we're finally in the same country, and then about to move to another together for grad school, ending things feels like a big punch in the gut














