Don’t Dish Out What You Can’t Take.
This is beginning to bother me, sadly I have to vent twice in one day but with this phony ass family of mine it’s almost hard not to be able to. This woman sits around this house all day long complaining, fussing, moaning, bitching and groaning because she’s tired, hurting or has no energy. Sometimes she just nags to do so. I’m convinced that she loves to hear herself complain all day long. Today she decides to close the door on my son because he kept making noise while she does her prayers. I get it don’t get me wrong, he is loud and makes it hard to concentrate, but its the way she did it. You damn near almost closed his and my daughters hand in the door as you slid it, then you knew for a fact that was going to make him fall to pieces. you could’ve simply said ‘hey N, grandma is going to close the door for a little while so I can finish my prayer when I’m done i’ll open it back’ he would’ve still fell apart but he would’ve understood you he’s not dumb; he knows exactly what you are saying. But of course not you wanted to be rude about it. Now you wanna complain and get all in your feelings because I said something; it’s not what you did, it’s how you did it. She loves to call everyone else out and point out what everyone else does but when someone does it back to her, her feelings are hurt. She wants to slam doors and raise her voice as if that’s going to get her simple-minded point across. I don’t care that you’re upset, because you didn’t have to do what you did. If you can’t take it, don’t dish it!