#negativity*

[rebelbrat]

the Powers That Be™ have told me that if I get the plastic surgery procedure I have always wanted I will literally die of complications but idk, maybe i hate myself enough to try it anyway

[cosmoscourge-a]

Pro tip, if someone apologizes to you, don’t be a dick about it even if you feel like they were in the wrong. Today I apologized to my abuser for blowing up at her and she instantly steamrollered me with a giant lecture about why she was right and let me just say I’m not keen on apologizing to her ever again. :\

[forcefuried]

give me one good reason not to just delete this fucking blog

[eldunea]

unpopular opinion: i do not and probably will never understand the phrase “don’t speak ill of the dead.” i mean, they’re dead, so it’s not like you’re hurting them, and if they truly were terrible enough to merit speaking ill, i don’t feel any sympathy for the hurt that would have been caused by your valid criticism had they still been around. i’ve met some absolutely horrific people who if they died tomorrow without having changed their ways i’d still be going around telling everyone just how messed up they were--FUCK their memory, FUCK giving respect to dead people who didn’t deserve any when they were alive. and when my mom and grandpa die, don’t think i’ll ever shut up about how they tried to BRIBE ME WITH PLASTIC SURGERY to move back in with them after i got fed up with mom and left…especially my mom, since she knew i was dysmorphic and therefore there’s a strong case for her having tried to prey on my mental illness to bring me back into her clutches. you don’t stop leaving a shit legacy just because you kick the bucket. and if you fuck up throughout your life with not a shred of remorse i think it’s only fair for everyone who remembers you to verbally piss on your grave.

[deadandphilgames]

Look ik we humans have Anger and Negativity we need to spill, but at least use this to to criticize things that will actually make the world better, not someone’s appearance. This is all I’m asking. Just treat people’s appearance with respect. Want to criticize Dan? Go ahead, but criticize shit he’s actually done wrong, not you know, wearing clothes

bruh I hate to break this to you but criticising a mans outfit choice who a) will absolutely never check my tumblr to see my opinion and b) the criticism is from 2010 is legitimately not an evil thing to do. I appreciate that you want to defend the man but I would never criticise his or anyone’s actual appearance/anything they physically cannot change about the way they look, but I think A Single Outfit he hasn’t worn in 9 years is an Okay thing to make a Joke about

[traumaturgic]

so my mom is seventy years old.

She doesn’t have to do this. She could put these four elderly people in a home. She takes care of my grandmother (96) my grandfather (95) my great aunt (90) and my other great aunt (89) all in one home, because she’s loyal and she doesn’t want to put them in a home because of all the horror stories of nursing homes.

She’s one woman. A single mom who also takes care of me and my brother still, sometimes.

Now my mom has these cousins. There’s five of them. They’re rich. They live in practical mansions. They have one, single elderly woman to take care of. She’s in mostly the same state, which is fine, but they just. Put her in a home.

And she said “Why are you doing this to me? I trusted you.”

And it breaks my heart because if my mom can be strong like this, how could they, the five of them, not want to take care of their own mother? It’s silly and selfish. I know that sometimes taking the elderly to a home is the best thing, but it just... made me sad, and I had to write about it because this woman was so strong. She took care of five children and her cousin’s children, cooked for us, cleaned for us, provided for us, and it just. Feels like her children shunted her off somewhere.

And I just.

Had to write about it.

[sibbul-blog]

With all the positive energy of the entire world, tomorrow Yeongue will become the sixth and last member of the group and he will be our cutie maknae, that we'll also shower him with endless love and support. Woo-ah boy, I hope for your debut. Make us happy, YG... don't waste him now, we want Yoonbin x Yeongue, make it happen!!