hey! Contradictory label culture is I have some complaining to do. Feel free to delete this ask if it’s too much of a downer!
I’m a neutrois man-woman. Never been transfem, never been transmasc, never will be! And everyone who's ever piped up in the comments of one of my gender theory posts to ask "but which one are you" or to speculate about my fucking asab status based on my opinions, you can go fuck yourself! You don’t care about transmascs, transfems, trans-anybody, if you are using their identities as tools to harass other people. I’m happy to answer peoples questions, I’m happy to share my point of view with people who experience the world completely differently than me, I’m ecstatic to engage with other peoples views on gender, on sexuality, on culture, on personhood. But I’m so sick of these petty little cruelties wrapped in the veil of olive branches, or simple curiosity, or self defense.
I don’t need people to understand me, but show me this basic kindness, please: don’t pretend like you want to if you don’t.
Will never understand why genitals matter that much like eugh ....ew bro you don't need to know.
