Toys for beginners! I have vaginismus, so these toys should be good for those worried about things being too big
- dillenia gama by jimmyjane (gass s shaped dildo) -- great for exploring what you like and where your good spots are inside you! Glass is super slick, esp with lube, so much easier than silicone (which can be a little draggy). Good for g spotting/prostate play, a and p spotting (anterior and posterior fornix respectively), and cervix massage. Small side is 1.1 inches in diameter, and the larger bulb is 1.5. In my tight/painful pussy experience, the 1.1 end should be achievable and pleasurable for almost everyone, but you might want to work up to the 1.5 inch diameter end.
(Full disclosure: I don't have the dillenia gama, but I do have the icicles 69, which is a similar glass toy, with a slightly larger big end and a more steeply curved end (almost 90°), which is meant specifically for g spotting. Unfortunately, i realized after I got it that the almost 90° curve isn't quite right for me and that the dillenia gama would definitely have been better. Icicles is owned by a company with a less than stellar reputation, and I don't think that I would have bought the 69 if I'd known it at the time)
- hot octopuss amo bullet vibe -- soooo gooood, super rumbly. I use it and i swear i can feel my entire clit, from the glans to the cura to the vestibular bulbs. I recently got the blush limited addiction vibe (another bullet), and that bullet is more powerful, but not even close to as rumbly.
- bms pillow talk sassy -- g spot/prostate and clitoral/general vibrator, known to be extremely rumbly and powerful (bms is known for having very rumbly and powerful toys), another toy that I do not have (but desperately want)
- bms st tropez rabbit vibrator -- I have this one and BOY IS IT AMAZING, super rumbly, super powerful, flexible clitoral arm so that it fits a pretty wide range of bodies, the g spot end IS a teensy bit wide (1.45 in diameter), so it hurts a little when i put it in (though i do kind of rush my prep out of excitement, so y'know, you might not have this problem)
- g-squeeze pussy plugs by SquarePegToys -- huge range of sizes from xs to xxxl, made of super soft silicone, so they're easier to insert than other toys of the same size made out of firmer silicone -- NOTE: pussy plugs are of a similar principal to butt plugs, but they have a smaller base to make them more comfortable between the labia. This means that they are NOT SAFE FOR ANAL
- uberrime sensi, small or medium -- small is probably better for those worried about size, but I have a medium and I love it (in the softest option, soft and squishy shore 0030), another pussy plug, I love just sitting there with it in, clenching and feeling full while I read/watch porn... so hot <3. This won't necessarily give you an orgasm by itself, but it's wonderful if you put a bullet or wand on your clit
- indie silicone toy makers!! If you are worried about dildos being too big, indie toy makers usually have not only a big range of sizes, BUT a big range of silicone firmnesses. Uberrime, Twilight Meadow Creations, Undercover creations, and Strange Bedfellas are all indie toy makers that use only 100% platinum cured silicone, and have a big range of toy sizes and toy firmness!
- Supersmashcache is a blog dedicated to reviewing sex toys, and while the person who runs it is a size queen, she also has pretty good beginner toy reviews, too! She also has some good, informative posts about anatomy and pleasure spots!
- Same thing with Phallophile Reviews (another sex toy reviewing blog)
- ps I have a bms maximum bullet, a solina dual density spotta dildo, and a twilight meadow creations dildo coming (twilight meadow ships from sweden, and I'm in the usa, so it's probably gonna be a while), so i can come back with updates for those if you want them!
super interesting and way more informative than the post i made! given my fairly limited sexual experience this is super helpful! everyone read up if youre looking for recommendations!!!
still gonna add on that suction toys >>>>>