I’ve learned not to hate on another women’s #lifepath even if I delude myself in thinking I can’t learn from or relate to their story. Watching & assisting women in uplifting other women with #nojudgement, just #pure #love through the ugly down times & the glorious up times is so #healing to me. It binds us. It feels rare, but it’s just as prevalent every single day as the underbelly hurt of deceit, jealousy and lies exist we see & or engage in. #Focus on the #positive. #NoJudgentZone . I gleaned from scrolling that her album has made some historical marker. Fastest something or other. Knew it was significant when Oprah put out a pic of herself saying she’s listening to #CardiB’s album. Taken myself out of following the #music game, but I’m happy for her & her success. I used to let the idea of how women are taking on their #power in various ways I have yet to reach move me into judgment & now I see how I judged other women’s personal walk in all the “low” ugly times almost as ugly as I judged myself, which was a lot. We may not innerstand someone else’s cross-to-bear walk, but we #feel & see the results of the hard work they put in & judge their #glowup based on our own innermost beliefs about ourselves. #threefingersALWAYSpointbackatyou #DontHateAPPRECIATE . #Repost from @erykahbadu - The realist. ❤️ @iamcardib we watched you turn your #empire to a #wombniverse! What that says to me is If you can #visualize it you can #realize it . Keep giving haters a job bb. ❤️❤️❤️❤️😍
