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Confession #171
I find it stupid that as an unaligned non binary person people call me crazy for dating a cishet guy. I don’t identity with the NBLM and NBLW community even though I’m bisexual. Why are people more accepting if a NB person dates a cis lesbian or cis gay guy?
Confession #172
I have been semi-out as nonbinary for over three years. I never directly told my boyfriend of two years because I knew he already had a rough idea that I was nonbinary but it was never a somthing I felt we needed to talk about. And in the last week he said somthing about me being nonbinary somthing along the lines of “why can’t we just share body wash isn’t being nonbinary mean you don’t care if you smell like a boy” and while the comment wasn’t right it wasn’t mean so I thought this was him comming around to like openly acknowledging my gender. I ask him about the comment a bit later and he went on this rant about how “he doesn’t even think it is real but he won’t try to change me” and idk how to handle this. Not a single other thing is a problem with us. Other than he refers to me as his girl friend to his family and friends. But never when I’m there. And so I don’t know how to feel.
Confession #170
Being AMAB, extremely cis-presenting, and an usher at a performance theater that caters to older people, I feel so out of touch with my nonbinary identity, and have to constantly remind myself how there’s no one way to present is nonbinary… but I still feel like I’ll never be nonbinary enough.
Confession #166
I’m so happy in my gender, and so supported by the people who know – but every time I have to come out to someone else, my throat closes up and all I can do is deflate as the conversation continues.
Confession #168
So I’ve been trying to come out to my mom for 2 weeks now and the problem isn’t that she’s not accepting or anything, I’ve already explained to her the concept a long time ago before i realized i fell under the nonbinary umbrella and she was confused, but accepting. I mean, it was new to her but she didn’t seem to even remotely doubt me. She’s a great mom, really open minded, she accepted my being aroace in a second. But enough of that. It’s not the problem. The problem is I LITERALLY CANNOT GET HER ATTENTION FOR LONGER THAN 5 MINUTES WITHOUT A CRISIS HAPPENING. She’s a behaviorist, she works with a bunch of people, and without fail, if it isn’t one of her clients being wronged or having a crisis as soon as i get her alone, it’s a dog that has a tumor, or she has to work late, or my stepmother (they’re lesbians, harold) has a crisis of her own. Like, they’re all legitimate reasons and i can’t really put this over the physical well being of one of her clients, but i just need like 20 minutes to start this off! Like, please? I feel like I’m living in a sitcom!
Confession #161
I hate it when people say nonbinary people aren’t actually trans and pull out arguments about dysphoria, because when my gender fluctuates to agender, that’s when I feel the most dysphoric
Confession #169
It's shark week and I lowkey want to die
Confession #163
Ever since i realized i was nonbinary, i feel like I’m doubling down on the femme because if i cared too much about how other people identify me i would get hurt all the time. As an afab nonbinary person, it’s just easier to go with people calling me ma'am and her. My dream has always been to present in such a way that my gender isn’t readily apparent, but i have huge breasts. If i put in the effort to present as I wish and I’m still misgendered i feel like it would hurt. So i shrug and just “don’t care”
