You know, I read your story about how Swedish is/was seen as a high class thing in Finland, and... I live in Norway, I'm not Norwegian though, and, Sweden, and Swedish as a language are constantly the butt of jokes. I've met a few Swedes, and of course they have their own jokes, but like... it's so weird to think of it as a status symbol, when you actually know real Swedes, and constantly read jokes about Swedish things. I even asked one of them about it, and they just looked mildly curious.
Yeah, my experience with Swedes is the same. Like all Swedes that I’ve spoken with about the status of the Swedish language/Swedish-speaking minority in Finland have been mostly baffled and/or amused. I live in Sweden atm and am engaged to a Swede, so these talks come up frequently (and the amount of Swedes who don’t even know that Swedish is widely spoken in Finland is astonishing, or that it’s a mandatory subject in our curriculum).
I also feel like my experience growing up is pretty unique tbh? Because I’ve met other Fenno-Swedes as an adult and they were totally different from my father’s side of the family and mostly just horrified in my stead, so. Yeah. :’D My family’s just a special flavour of weird - and I admit it was really alienating growing up hearing that we’re “bättre folk” (better people) just because of something as arbitrary as language. I still don’t ID as Fenno-Swede and I probably never will because of that attitude.
One of these days I’m writing a damn novel about my absurd family, haha.(sorry I rambled hhhhhh)