Jan 12
transdisabled means they think you can just “transition” to be disabled. same w trans cane user.
as a disabled person & cane user- fuck that anon. we get fake claimed enough. my disability and mobility aid isn’t a quirky identity for you to try on.
yeah, that makes sense. TAT
i understand though! we have uh... several? disabilities, though we're trying to manage them, but we'll likely need to get crutches in the future because of the deterioration...
i'm a bit worried that whoever sent that might just be a kid in denial about being disabled and using that label to grasp at it? in which case i hope they figure it out.... but if not i don't really see a variation in which i want to interact with this sort of topic again, i fear... ^-^;;;
#not moji#im not sure whos fronting but i think we mostly just hope that this is some sort of fundamental misunderstanding in the end for this instan#since overall we vastly prefer to assume people are thinking of others and how they affect the people around them and just arent good at it#(yet!)#for hte most part....#i know thats not very likely but augh i really hope thats whats going on#itd be nice but#tumblr isnt exactly the site for nuance and rational conversation in general so im not going to be inviting that kind of conversation eithe#aaaa i know im rambling in the tags sorry i got stressed by this
