yknow what people say their heart holds a piece of everyone they've ever loved? holy fuck I didn't actually think i related to that until I actually thought about it. like im looking back and every single person I've ever loved since I was 4 still has part of my heart. i still cling to a memory of them or an interest they had at the time. I remember most of their voices and my heart aches when I hear their name. so, I have a question: do we ever truly get over someone? maybe if you're fully over someone, you didnt truly love them in the first place
Guys. If or when you get a job, and when there comes a time where you need to call and ask about your schedule, make sure that it's the correct schedule. Double check with the person you are speaking to on the phone, and write it down.
I know this is different from my usual posts but yesterday I got called by my job asking where I was and I had found out I'd been mistakenly given the wrong schedule by an assistant manager. I thought I'd give you guys this advice since not everyone's boss is as understanding about the situation as mine was.
If you get a feeling that something may be up, never hesitate to call again to verify your schedule with your boss.
why do people actually consider “clanker” to be a slur??? isn’t the whole point of the slur that it has a history of being used to degrade a group of people? does “clanker” really fall into that category?????
It's insane that my parents dont realize how locking down my phone just makes me more creative
tw I'm a not good person and long post
lore drop
so basically, backstory, in 5th-6th grade I was way chronically online (mainly just tiktok and roblox, i think) but as of that, I had quite a few online friends. some bad things happened, so my parents took my phone for a bit
then I just found my mom's old phone and used it without her knowledge
then she found out, took that, gave me my phone back but kept it locked in the Samsung kid's mode. and hey, I broke out of that, too ! I guessed the pass code and changed it so I can easily get in and out of that
then idk how but my parents found out about that too, so I got my phone taken away again
then I started using the VR headset that had a browser
after a few months, they gave my phone back and my dumbass immediately texted an old online friend with a screen shot of our tiktok messages to prove it was me
and my parents saw that and went "How were you messaging on tiktok without a phone?" so then they checked the VR. they've given up, basically, but somehow they found a way to lock down how many phone numbers I can text and they control them. also the only social media app I have is pinterest. uhm. here I am with a tumblr account and the phone number thing broke so I basically can text whoever, but I think new phone numbers have to text me first or something? I haven't figured it out, but I can definitely text people that aren't on the approved list
i also laugh every time my mom wont buy me a book because it's too mature or graphic or like one sex scene because like mom I literally am on tumblr where communities get spammed with porn bots when your just trying to look at Skong fanart
so moral of the story, parents, you aren't locking down your child's phone as much as you think you are, and instead you're just making a very creative person who doesn't trust with telling you anything because you get mad or just dismiss it
(Also through all of this, I've had parent controls so my mom can see my screen time and app usage and my phone locks at 10pm-6am)
and really, im only in online spaces because it helps me feel like I belong. it gives me people i can talk to and trust and relate to, because, honestly, as a transgender teen wih enough dysphoria to fill an ocean, there's not many people in real life that could ever understand me
