Pls ship me! I'm a Libra, ISTJ. I'm an extroverted introvert, I'm shy when I meet new people & embarrassed when someone compliments me. People think I look cold at first sight but it changes after they know me. I'm easy going & independent. Thank you
You’re shy demeanor upon meeting new people catches his eye at first, because the way you act when your shy he finds to be cute. He gets embarrassed easily around you because of how much he loves you, He falls for you quickly and you become the center of his universe, he wants to spend as much time with you as possible and often gets pouty if you make plans with friends or family which exclude him.
He can come off as needy and clingy at times often wanting to be the center of your attention, therefore if you ignore him or don’t pay attention to him for awhile it really bothers him. Therefore ignoring him or giving him the silent treatment when you are upset with him would be extremely effective and he would quickly be apologizing and trying to make up with you even if he wasn’t the one in the wrong to begin with.
It would just bother him to much and drive him crazy for you not to talk to him or notice him. pretending you can’t hear him or see him would be the worst thing you could do to him.
Because he craves your attention he can easily become jealous when you give your attention to others, especially other guys, and it becomes blatantly obvious when he’s jealous, first he gets pouty and tries to redirect your focus back to him, however if this doesn’t work he’s not afraid to call out the person you’re directing your attention at.
He likes that you are independent but also wants you to be able to lean on him and depend on him every now and then, because he likes to feel needed and wants to be helpful and useful to you.
He’s very observant and attentive when it comes to your well being and feelings, He can tell fairly quickly if something is bothering you or if somethings not right, and he will quickly call you out on it, wanting to know whats going on and whats wrong. If you refuse or simply don’t tell him whats bothering you, he will continue to ask and question you about whats going on and whats wrong.
He’s very determined and persistent when it comes to something not being right with you or bothering you. He never wants you to be unhappy, sad or upset and never wants you to deal with anything on your own.
Therefore he makes it clear that you can come to him and tell him anything, He’s a great listener and gladly offers advice and does well at comforting you, He goes out of his way to make you smile and does anything he can to make you happy. He wants to make your dreams and goals come true and he’s happy to be with you at any time.
Because he likes spending every minute with you he would be at your place often, he wouldn’t immediately ask you to move in with him, because he doesn’t want to come off as pushy or demanding.
Therefore he waits until you start talking about living together. He likes being affectionate and cuddling with you however he’s easily flustered and embarrassed by physical displays of affection.
You’re easy going and laid back personality makes him feel comfortable around you though, so after being with you for awhile he’s not as easily embarrassed or flustered and it would become easier for him to embarrass you by being overly affectionate, especially in public.
all in all the two of you would get along very well, It’s not easy for you to irritate or annoy him in anyways and he never gets angry with you, and if there is an argument he’s quick to apologize and make up even if he didn’t start the argument, simply because he can’t stand you being upset with him. But he dedicates himself to you completely and he’s extremely loyal and loving and would protect you with his life.
Likes to give you compliments often because he knows it embarrasses you and he thinks your cute when your embarrassed. However he’s very similar in this regard because if you were to compliment him he would also become embarrassed.
He likes to spend as much time with you as possible and can often seem clingy, he likes spending time with you in the evening after missions and if for any reason you can’t spend time with him he gets pouty.
He likes to cuddle with you in privacy, but in public he’s fine with holding hands and hugging, but if you were to kiss him in public he would get fairly flustered and embarrassed by it.
Takes an interest in everything about you, and he often asks you questions about yourself, wanting to know about your past your plans for the future, your dreams and goals, and what your interests, hobbies and favorite things are.
Often does small gestures to show he cares about you from leaving small notes for you or bringing you small gifts or flowers, or whatever type of gift you would like or if you collect something, he would figure out what would make you happiest.
He always wants to know whats going on in your life or how your day went, He can’t go very long without talking to you, going even a single day without getting to see you or talk to you would bother him greatly.
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