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Tying into my word vomit on characterization and writing for clarity, let’s talk about ships. Because I have some peeves here, too (shocker!). Like, everyone’s gonna ship what they want to, and for the most part, hey, sure, great, I can blacklist what squicks me and what I think is implausible and move on with my life, but this is an airing of grievances, so air them I shall.
Personally - and again, this is not going to win me any favors, I know - if a person will ship their character with anyone, I’m a little leery. Because it feels like they’re not taking their character - who they are, their likes and dislikes, interactions between characters - into account. A character isn’t going to go down a roster and bang everyone on it. They’re just not. It’s almost like characters are like real people and have preferences in partners and romance and won’t actually want to screw everyone they meet.
I say this because I’m picky about Hector, because Hector is picky about Hector. When it comes to ships, there has to be a certain something there for it to take and to stick, and right now I’m pretty satisfied that, while I’m slow as balls and Tony Stark has been eating the headspace at the moment, all of his ships are good solid ones. Because there’s chemistry. Because there’s real development. Because I do look at a potential ship and ask myself how he’d feel about it. How he and another character will get along. How both of them will handle the strain of what a relationship with him would be like. I can’t just toss him at someone and add water. He’s headstrong and highstrung and hard to handle and if he’s not interested, he’s just not. Honestly, I don’t really see a character and right off have to have him in a ship with them - I like seeing who the characters on my dash are, and if I see potential, I see potential. But I don’t understand the mindset of constant ships, constantly, when other relationships are important, and some characters are just flat out not compatible and it takes mental gymnastics to even make it work, instead of finding someone it develops, on its own, naturally with.














