it's awful out here, socrates. seriously though people direct So Much Bullshit at mitsuba it's genuinely appalling to me
it's always: A. “haha he looks like a Girl but he's Male that's so Weird hahahahahaha look at this Weird F*mboy hahahhaha (insert degradation and/or sexual objectification here (usually both))”, B. “how DARE you suggest that this Obvious Transfem-coded Character might not be a 100% cisgender male. he is MASCULINE and HATES being feminine (a complete bold-faced lie)", C. “ugh this kid is so Annoying he Cries Too Much he's So Useless he's So Weak. i can't stand him why can't he be like the Male- i mean Good Characters” (<== is also a misogynist to the cis female characters in the same way), or god forbid D. “hmmmmm something Weird is going on with this kid's gender but i can't put my finger on it. i guess he must be transmasc or somethin idfk i can't think of any *other* options 🤷♀️”
the way people treat mitsuba in the fandom is honestly just more proof that she isn't cis, because all this ghost has to do is *exist* and suddenly everyone's a transmisogynist. fuck the mainstream jshk fandom, this is why i stay on tumblr. anyway if you're normal about mitsuba's gender: i owe you my gratitude forever and i love you and we should be friends forever 💗