I don't mean any hate, I'm simply curious because I've never seen it before. How do he/him lesbians work and how are they different from being nonbinary?
before i answer this, i am a trans gay man. so my awnser isn't the go to and id recommend looking up and reading and referring to lesbians for this info, not just to this question but to a lot of this related stuff!
but a non-binary lesbian is someone who is still has relationship to like being a women and a lesbian, someone who isnt entirely sat with identifying as a women but because gender is a complex fluid thing, they relate and sit with some of the identity of being a women but its more complicated than that. and im sure there are multitudes of way to explain how someone connect to being nonbinary and their sexuality
and he/him lesbian well i think in the end it is a pronoun thing, and i think you can be a nonbinary he/him lesbian! because its your pronouns! you can be a trans lesbian and you he/him pronouns or nonbinary or cis or whatever because their your pronouns and their just a part to play in your identity what makes you comfortable as you!
you can be a nonbinary lesbian who uses he/him pronouns, its just your preference!
because again using certain pronouns isnt what says your gender, its what you say your gender and identity is!