I saw a girl the other day post something like "my ex was a terrible person because blah blah blah blah and therefore, I love my boyfriend." I see another girl constantly post intimate details about her boyfriend and their personal life (no one needs to know when you're having sex, least of all your mom) and how he's so much better than her ex; or mopey, miserable statuses about her ex and how she finally realized someone was able to love her when she met someone else. Ladies, newsflash : You don't have to hate your ex to prove that you love your boyfriend. And if you're constantly trying to show off your new boyfriend so that they will see, than you clearly haven't gotten the fuck over it. And don't you DARE act like you need a man to feel appreciated and loved. The only person who can give you that is your self. Grow up and just be a nice person instead of a whiny drama queen. The pettiest thing someone can do is to try to prove they love someone by belittling someone else.