This really bothered me tbh.
Don't allow anyone to tell you that something definitely doesn't exist , if someone seems so sure something doesn't exist it means you've had different life experiences and ideas , and that's okay !
If you can think about something , it exists somewhere !
I'm not going to tell you its always easy to pull off or start up
It does happen and your not wrong for wanting to look for this specific dynamic
Be prepared to protect yourself from many many scammers
I swear I had to of been scammed (without money but fell for the idea of sending content before payment) at least 5 times before stumbling across a real sugar daddy!
He didnt expect any form of content before any payment , he'd done it before and knew how to work the situation! He payed amazingly and he was respectful!
The downside was mostly how needy he was like Jesus he wanted me up all night to talk on the phone while he was at work and up most of the day to text while he wasn't at work untill his wife got home . I had about 8 hours of freedom and that's not alot at all .
So I know what your thinking -
So he wanted you to do something super weird then right ? He must have been absolutely appalling or something or he was trying to sex traffic me or something crazy right ? And I know for sure your thinking "why did you stop being his sugar baby ?"
He wanted an online girlfriend essentially.
He wanted me to edge with him for as long as possible , that was hard at times bc of my work online , I'd get punishments and rewards for edging on stream
He wasn't from the same country as me so our timezones ended up being an issue at some points but nothing we couldn't work out .
The man was very respectful and polite , he wanted me to talk to him throughout his entire work day he'd wear an ear piece and we'd talk on the phone for his 8 hour shift (I know it's alot) and sometimes over an hour would pass and nothing would be said , but that was okay ! When his wife was out 2 times a week was when he wanted to have phone sex , and we'd edge together , he'd recieve content all throughout the week but would only pleasure himself at home when his wife was gone according to her twice weekly schedule.
I think the strangest thing I was asked to do was to moan to him while walking through a Walmart (I was way too shy that was a punishment)
All and all it worked out great!
Then the wife found out .
She called me , she couldn't speak English as well as him , so I hardly know what she said , but she was very unhappy ! After that call I was blocked on everything except PayPal, he reached out to me again to ask if we could "pick up where we left off" but honestly he was one needy son of a bitch lol