july: what do your summers usually consist of? usually they consist of new job searching, moving houses and wishing i could spend more time at the beach. since i'm not in school anymore, i don't really do anything special that i don't do any other time of the year --- except for the beach. 19: what do you look for in a significant other? i'm probably more superficial at first than i would like to be. i am very attracted to physical features like eyes and arms and the back (don't ask) but for someone to be datable there's has to be a level of maturity, of honesty, of spirituality in a guy. i'm like a banshee when it comes to being attracted to musicians, it's fucking weird. i find assholes too. we have to be able to have a conversation. if you can hold a meaningful conversation with me, if you can challenge me or get me to learn something new, oh yes.