iiiiii think its best for me to ollie out and leave too? i mean shit son, it was a fun time while it lasted but i literally have no patience for this bullshit but at least i feel a lot better since i unloaded. i'll be hanging around on and off until midnight or so if anyone wants my skype or my personal. you have to ask off anon for those obviously but yeah. ✌️
I’m only posting this because I’m at the end of my fucking patience for this entire bit of bullshit that’s going on and so is Cody, but who can blame him? I certainly can’t.
A lot of this is going to be a rant and on personal account, so I apologize for that too. And this is more of an open letter to Travis/Tracey/who the fuck ever than anything, but I’ll also submit it right before I post this so it can’t just be brushed under the rug.
I’m honestly really sorry for all this drama posting, but I’m so fucking done it isn’t even funny. I’m tired of this. I will be tagging it all so you can avoid it though. And it’ll be under a readmore when I post it here.
Here goes nothing @childsplxy
Hi! You probably don’t know me, but I’ve been in and out of the DR OC community since about February 2014. I went by Darla (glemtxbarn/shslspookykids and shslcreepystrangers), Shay (b0ysandhomicide), and Corey (now). I’ve never been terribly relevant around these parts but I was apparently interesting enough for you to follow me on your personal after I blocked you so hi!(:
I’m going to start at the beginning, with all the drama last year.
So last year, around the time Pavelmun’s post went up about Cody (he was going by Scout at the time, I think), I had talked to him briefly a few times. We had talked a little bit of shit on this aspect of America and that dead president because home country was the ooc conversation topic on dash at the time. We had actually role played maybe a handful of times and I was extremely close with an entirely different person who was my primary shipping partner at the time. But I had him on skype and talked to him occasionally because he was pleasant and funny. He was hard on himself a lot, but I can’t really blame him thinking back on it.
When that post went up, the community was leagues more active than it is now. I looked onto my first multimuse blog (which I archived around Thanksgiving weekend last year) and I was following over 700 people. I remember watching my dash on mobile while laying down in bed to stalk threads I thought were interesting. Gosh, there were so many people and the place was buzzing. And they all went and believed that one post, which was full of unsourced allegations.
So. Being the good friendly acquaintance that I was, what was it that I did? I went and asked Cody what was going on. What was that post about? Why were they saying this? Especially considering there were no sources because, golly gee, I’d like to see something other than a few people in the same clique banging their pots and pans together and declaring that someone was an abuser without a shred of evidence. He and I have been friends since then. And you know what? I’m glad for it.
Side note at how hilarious it is that you’re encouraging everyone to be hyper-critical unless it’s toward something that backs you up. Like to say anything against you, someone needs “hard evidence”. But when it comes to you saying something about someone else all it takes is a bunch of biased worker bees from the central hivemind.
I wasn’t heavily involved in/paying a massive amount of attention to the whole thread tagging situation, but at the glance I took I don’t remember his particular triggers being tagged. Corrected and tagged later? Absolutely. I’ll back the fact up that they were corrected. And as far as the readmores? If someone is talking about a thread on your dash like they’re keeping up with it, then you’re gonna get curious. That’s how I ended up skimming them. And as far as Cody, people know his triggers. That’s part of the reason he didn’t actually put them up on his rules page when he was coming back undercover, and only updated them after he revealed himself. So if people know your triggers and they have a reputation for being careful about tagging things,you would think it’s safe to read? Right? He’s hella careful about possibly exposing himself to that shit too.
[10/10/2015 6:05:23 PM] octodad cody: pouts bc they dont even have it B(
[10/10/2015 6:05:54 PM] I Am Byakuya Togami: What was it ?
[10/10/2015 6:06:00 PM] I Am Byakuya Togami: B(
[10/10/2015 6:06:58 PM] octodad cody: pete wentz' gray
[10/10/2015 6:07:08 PM] octodad cody: they have tokyo ghoul volume one though
[10/10/2015 6:08:37 PM] I Am Byakuya Togami: Ooh
[10/10/2015 6:08:42 PM] I Am Byakuya Togami: Pats your head
[10/10/2015 6:11:03 PM] octodad cody: but you said that tokyo ghoul has my triggers in it
[10/10/2015 6:11:05 PM] octodad cody: so im just
[10/10/2015 6:11:09 PM] I Am Byakuya Togami: Yeah
[10/10/2015 6:11:17 PM] octodad cody: frustrated bcim curious and want to get into it but :')
Again, this is a personal account more than anything so I won’t have like 3879283 different caps or anything but I thought that significant to mention and I remembered having that conversation just the other day so I went and grabbed it.
Another big point you’ve been resting on was the thread where Meisei got stabbed because someone was yandere for their boyfriend (my ex-SHSL Black Metal Musician, Eirik). As someone who was keeping up with the thread both because I was interested and involved, and because my OC was highly relevant, I can assure you that it was. Clover didn’t tag it as much, but I know Cody is ridiculously thorough with tagging. Note that I also tagged my threads with both Yuuka and Meisei considering the situation And I saw you trying to blame him for other people talking about it IC and untagged. Imagine this: Cody doesn’t have control over what other people post. Holy shit. It’s a new fucking revelation!!! Wild, huh?
As far as using people though? I don’t know who you’re talking about lmao. Like, even with my personal issues about telling people when shit is wrong, both he and I have leaned on each other and it sure as shit isn’t him just doing it to me. But when he does, you know what? That’s okay because that’s kind of what your QPP is for. We have fun together, but if one of us is upset or having it rough then we go to each other because we trust each other.
And goodness, heaven forbid we want to have fun without you sticking your nose into his life again. There is evidence of you trying to disguise your spriting style to interact with him last year when he started blocking you because you made him uncomfortable. Jesus, you can’t just let him be? That’s honestly all he fucking wants. Why do you think he went through the trouble of blacklisting all the URLs you have while he was on cxddlepxddles? He just wanted to have fun and role play without having to deal with someone who made him uncomfortable. He didn’t vague about people interacting with you, he didn’t vague about how many people he had blocked or how many URLs he had blacklisted.
I was on a skype call with him when you followed him on childsplxy. We had been talking about some things that had gone on between my OC Andreas and his new ones, Engel and Ubel when he said that you had followed him (he knew it was you because he recognized the sprites) and got really quiet and panicky for awhile and sent me the link.
On top of that, he didn’t vague about you. Didn’t leave any clues to your identity in his hiatus message. All he said was, “ one of my abusers recently came into the community.” There is no clues to your identity there. Honestly though, I don’t at all blame him for not being comfortable being here if you are. I’m starting to get uncomfortable at the thought of sharing the community with you anymore. Me. Someone who has never spoken to you. If that doesn’t say something, then I don’t know what would.
Honestly, I don’t understand why you had to vague at him and perpetuate this but it’s really fucking annoying. I guess he isn’t allowed to do something that he finds fun anymore without you hovering over his shoulder and ruining it for him. So tell me, why was following him (and me) on your personal and vaguing about him necessary when you could have just left it alone and saved you, him, and the rest of the community all this trouble? Isn’t that something that an abuser would do? Hm?
Honestly, I’ve had some good and bad times in the community. After all, I met some of my favorite people here. But in its current state, it’s not worth the bullshit you put out.
With Love,
Corey/Cedric
P.S. I’m posting this publicly on my blog as well, so don’t think you can just avoid it by deleting it from submit.
zephyr cable is my son and deserves nothing but good things and tatsuya maki is vain garbage who literally only cares about cars and his hair. just keep this in mind
