Are you a Gold Star lesbian? (Just in case you don't know what it means, a Gold Star lesbian is a lesbian that has never had sex with a guy and would never have any intentions of ever doing so)
The whole idea of a gold star lesbian is actually pretty harmful as it can make people who have been with men before coming out as a lesbian feel less valid or like they aren't a "true" lesbian. Frankly, it's not really anyone's buisness who someone's been with.











