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If it feels right

Learning to listen to your instinct is probably one of the most important things you can do.  If it feels right, then it is right for you, if you have doubt a gut feeling if you will, then pause and consider whether you really want to proceed.

Calm, gentle inward probing of your instinct will reward you.

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Surprising Outcomes

The games people play.  Leverage, love, genuine need.  All variations along a theme.  How do you feel when you are with someone.  How do you feel when they talk about something.  How do you feel when you think of them. When people make you feel good they are the ones for you.  If they don’t keep some distance.  Forgiveness and love are at the root of genuine peace and happiness.

If you find someone who was once close starts to annoy you, try thinking of them with love and affection, with the feelings that made you friends with them and you will be pleasantly surprised the next time you talk with them.

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Forgive Yourself

Sometimes we feel our imperfections more strongly.  We wish we hadn’t done something or said something that has hurt or offended someone else.  Being aware of this is important; so too can looking within to understand the reasons for the behaviour.  Looking within, quietly and calmly, can help you let go of the guilt or anxiety you may feel.  Apologising to the person you have hurt is good if that is possible.  Letting go of the guilt is important so you can move on and be more empowered within yourself to stay calm in situations of stress.  Forgive yourself, it is a blessing you are worthy of.