A persaID for when one is comfortable defining their gender to themselves or using gendered terms for themselves, but not comfortable with others defining their gender or using gendered terms for them.
Considered as more or less an umbrella label for terms like persawoman and persaman, combining the two and encapsulating all genders.
If already coined, consider as an alt flag.
If still confused how this works:
For example, I am genderfluid. At any given moment I can be any gender. However, I am not comfortable with others assigning me any gender, even when I use gendered terms for myself in the moment. I prefer that I do not get referred to as any gender, instead treated as agender (thus the agender color palette) or even antigender in a sense.
Using this label inherently implies that you, basically, want to be treated as antigender or agender, even if your gender is not antigender/agender. (Is antigender even a label? It should be!)
Me when it's gender fuckery season. What the hell did drawing myself/my source genderbended do to me?
There is no real term that opposes "agender" directly (similarly to the ace/aro vs allo- dichotomy), so I chose just "gender".
I don't think this was coined before at least, even though the term persagender absolutely exists.
I'm actually not entirely sure whether persaid is the correct umbrella for this, but I have no other idea for a fitting label. And because this is basically a combo of persawoman, persaman and persa-any-other-present-gender, I think it's the closest, at least in terms of how our headmates experience gender and being persaID.
