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About Personal Space Invaders
We all deserve some privacy, some people with whom we can actually be ourselves , some things that remind us of our beautiful memories (from who we were with to who we actually were) , some space, some..intimacy.
Not everyone can understand that . but what if those who don't understand are some of the closest people around you? . would you stay and accept the invasion of your personal space/ simply leave after trying with them / keep a distance between you and them (and i mean psychological distance)/ or put a mask on?
And as you know , every decision has its consequences,i.e..its price.
Now if you decided to simply let people invade your personal space, your relationship with them would be ok (at first at least). but what about your relationship with yourself? it wouldn't be the same. your being around those people would be a pressure on your self. and after a while you won't take it any more, so that's a temporary solution.
Simply leave if you told them before and they didn't understand? that wouldn't be totally fair. there is a good chance that those people would be hurt and your conscience wouldn't let you get away with it. but you'd also be able to tell yourself that they don't understand your needs therefore you will leave them (i.e you didn't simply leave them to relief your conscience). which isn't a very bad solution.
Keeping a psychological distance between you and them, they would feel as if you've changed and not as close to them as you were. you won't tell them details and personal information as much as you used to..etc. that would actually free you from the guilt from totally leaving them , they would still be in your life and most importantly, you'd be able to keep your space. but on the other hand, you'd lose the intimacy in your relationship.
Putting a mask on, making them feel as if they know everything about you while they actually don't. this solution includes some mischieving which wouldn't only make you feel guilty but also fake and simply insecure. however, on the other hand it will keep your relationship with them as well as your privacy. but it's not good for you.
So finally, no matter which solution you choose , remember its price. and make sure you can afford it.