omg tell me about your petulant babies jay ships though
There's Jay/Tim! They just have SO MANY FEELINGS that they CANNOT HANDLE AROUND EACH OTHER and it just EXPLODES IN THEIR FACES and they are SAD BABIES and I just want Tim to come lizardsit and watch movies and eat real pizza.
There's Jay/Kon! Kon is just so earnest about liking Jason, and like - he's not hung up on who Jason used to be, or who he could have been. He's not out to change him or argue with him. He just wants to get to know him and maybe make him a little happier and sometimes he fucks it up but he apologises - and I think Jason having someone being blatantly sincere about being sorry is a REALLY GOOD THING.
There's Jay/Steph! There are just SO HILARIOUS AND CUTE, and I feel like Jason - really relaxes around Steph in a way he doesn't, usually, he really has fun. And Steph will never try to manipulate him, and while she calls him on crap she doesn't push him.
And there's Jay/Cass, who I see more as siblings, but in a really intimate way? Like with lots of cuddles and hair pets and nose kisses. And then one time Kon comes over...
Jay/Kon/Steph = also good.